how to make our dreams come true?
By melodyyu
@melodyyu (34)
China
February 25, 2009 11:25pm CST
it seems that everyone has a dream or more,it is usually too hard to make the dream come true since that dreams are often beyond the reality!but in some extent,we still hold those dreams tightly.just like a little child who always wishes he can fly like a bird.i am sure you all have got some dreams ,is it hard for you to make them come true?or you have already realize them ,tell me more and share your wonderful dreams!
6 responses
@ank_47 (1959)
• India
26 Feb 09
i sometimes gets dreams of that , i am traveling in singapore,malaysia . so i want to see that places and this i am thinking from many days and my budget is not allowing me to go to fulfit that dream .
i can't afford that travel,so became dream to me. may be i can acheive it in future,if i have fate .
as i am financially in less position, so dreaming to improve my financial status. so doing small jobs from house. in my life,i will fulfil my dreams.
in some dreams i will dream that my financial position is too rich and i have many servants and i have many jewlry around me and i am looking rich. and i am eating costly food.
i will get scary dreams also .once i got dream that ,i will in school and extra classes are going on and i went to cateen ,there one person (not my school person) came and he just pulled my hair and caught hold of my dress,and i so frightened and ran from there. this dream came from 10 years back and i still remember it upto now and don;t remember many of other dreams.
today morning also i have got one dream ,before i wake up. one villan gang has attacked our family members when we are in a marraige function hall and they shoot most of our relatives and i saved my parents from that villan gang ,instead once when they caught me also. i escaped from them and i saved my family also.and i got wake up from sleep in morning and don;t remember front and back of that story.after too much fighting against them i ran from them and saved my parents and some relatives.
this type of dreams i think i should not get again and no one should face this type of situation in real life.
if we have any financial dreams, small buying things ,that dreams we should try to fulfil by our hard work.and self cofidence should also be there to acheive it.Everybody has a dream and a plan for making the dream come true. The reason many people fail to fulfill their dream is, they dream more and plan less. Planning is highly essential for fulfilling your dream.
dream is always a bigger task that requires lot of commitment, dedication and hard work. Success will never come easy. You need to face a few failures for fulfilling your dreams.
The failures you cross should correct your mistakes but should not reduce your self esteem. Failures will make us feel low built it is easy to overcome those failures. To boost your self esteem while working for fulfilling your dream, you have to break your dream to many short term goals. Analyze yourself and determine what you can do easily. For tough tasks, give yourself some more time to accomplish the task. Rather than working towards a bigger dream, start working towards short term goals one at a time and you will eventually end up with fulfilling your dream.
When you have short term goals in your hands, prioritize them determine the deadline. If you achieve the goal within the deadline, celebrate yourself. Appreciate your inner self that you are powerful enough to complete the task within a short time. When you miss the deadline that you need to improve yourself and start working towards the goal. Never loose your confidence because you are already fulfilling your dream in incremental steps.
@melodyyu (34)
• China
3 Mar 09
thank you very much for your wonderful suggestion!to be honest,i do not think one can do exactly every step he must go ,he just wanna fulfill his dreams as soon as possible ,even if it is impossible to fulfill.i am a person full of dreams even since i was 5 years old i dreamed of becoming a college student and now i have grauated from the college and still think dreams take time to fulfill,if i had given up like many of my schoolmates there could be a different life for me.,then every thing could have to be changed.it is easy to overcome the failure for me but not too easy to overcome the waiting course and once it is too long time ,one will lose his confidence and then have to give up.that is why we always say that life is so short !
@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
26 Feb 09
i think the only way to make our dreams come true is work for it, and be very persistent, i know that nothing is impossible if you really try your best to strive it. i have a dreams that i want to be come true having a house for me and my family, thats why i am working so hard to achive it hopefully i can able to have it in time.
happy posting.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Hi there Melody!
As children, we have the purest and simplest dreams. Although impossible, there are no strings attached to them.. We just want to be able to do it. More often than not, there aren't much logical reason why we want to. As we grow older, our dreams get to be more realistic and attainable. Not all though, but most of them. I got hurt a lot of times and settled on things that I can achieve. Even if I have to work hard. and now, one by one, I was able to reach them and are presently working to achieve more of them.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
27 Feb 09
i think if there is a will, there is a way. if it is meant to happen, it will happen. so, just pursue it and be honest about your skills for it. and get the necessary training to improve on ur weaknesses to help you come closer to making your dreams come true.
@snowcat46 (2322)
• United States
5 Mar 09
Dreams may be beyond the reality, but we need them to make ourselves feel more complete. Without those dreams, we are nothing. I don't think Obama would be where he is today without a dream first!
Dream, but realize it takes work to make that dream come true. If you dream of true love, go out and meet people. Get involved in things so you can meet more people. Take a little step every day towards your dream. If you take that little step, it will get you there.
Want to travel? No money? Learn a foreign language anyway. Just maybe you'll get good enough, with enough work, to be a translator. Then someone may hire you to go with them to translate for them. Use the side roads to find the dreams.
@alfpr35 (47)
• Japan
27 Feb 09
yeah every one has a dream and i tell u the truth dreams do come true if u hold fast to that dream,,,if u want your dream to come true you need to write down the skeletal structure of your dream,what would like to accomplish in the next 2 years for example,,,,,,if u are a student u need to jot down probably the kind of person u want to be come in the near future,,i believe like Barrack Obama the US president said that 'yes we can'.Its indeed true that yes u can a achieve your dreams and goals in life,,,u know one thing ,whatever your mind can think of u can always achieve it,,its dreamers who move mountains ,its dreamers who surmount the in surmountable...But also u must have faith that u can do it,u must see yourself being that person whom u are seeing in that dream.Picture for example if are a student and u want to b a professor,,start seeing yourself lecturing students in a theater hall,even though the reality at hand may discourage u but never loose your focus,never get discouraged,yes the road to your dream world will not be smooth,but u must not waver in your resolve to accomplish the dream,i challenge you,son ,brother,mother,sister,grandy whoever u are or werever u are in this earth,dare dream again ,if u had shelved your dream,pleases pick it up from the dusty shelf and polish it up,,u must fulfill your dream.