Have you ever met someone there was just something about?

of course jen, that is the natural. we call that in our own language [b]mainit ang dugo [/b] basically meant the blood is boiling. it means that from the first time you laid your eyes on that person that instant it made your blood boil. you feel that he/she is annoying even you dont know that person well enough. i just had a feeling like that last night and he was a singer who will jam with us for last night only (thank God it was just last night har har har). i didnt like him at all i just dont know why but i didnt like him

Oh yeah, I've met some people who I really disliked from the first time I saw them. I don't know why...guess its bad blood?

I have known people I've either loved or hated on sight. I don't know why, but I (as you said) liked or disliked. One time, I even disliked the person when I saw their phone number. I always think that when that happens it's the universe talking to me. I try to honor those moments. Bad things happen me when I don't.

I have met a few people that I instantly disliked. I am never really sure why at first, but the longer I know someone the more that feeling that I dislike them is there. In that same regard I have met a few people that I have instantly liked. My son's old babysitter for example. Had we not moved she would have still been watching him. We recently moved back to the area, so she will be watching the kids again.

I have met people I instantly disliked. While a few of them were able to change that impression, for the most part my impression usually turns out to be correct. I'm inclined to go with my gut, but everybody deserves a chance to turn a bad first impression around. I think a lot of it may have to do with context cues. The surroundings you meet someone in may have a big influence on your perception of them. For example, you probably won't be enamored of someone you meet at the city dump, or some other unpleasant location. I think that body language is a huge part of it, though. You pick up on a lot of subconscious clues about someone through their body language, like "This person is aggressive" or "This person may be lying". Pheremones may also play a part in it, even though we can't consciously perceive those smells, we might dislike someone who smells "nervous". I've also met people I liked right away. I admit that whether or not someone is attractive influences my perception of them, as well as whether the surroundings are pleasant or not. But some people instantly come across as open and likeable. That's why meeting people on the internet is so weird... you don't have all of those things to base your impression of them off of.

yes defintly i have and im still traumatized from the experience because its been a yr now and i havent heard from this guy and for some reason i still beleive i will, he was like and angel i hd the most craziest feelings going on inside everytime we would talk.

Oh yeah, I have met a few of them. It is just bad vibes when you meet with them. You cannot put the finger on what is it about these people that you do not like or you do like. But the feeling is just there. Yeah... and I particularly hate it when I meet with some one that has bad vibes with mine. Cos most of the time, it is a feeling that is just on the dot. Worst if they are your superiors in the work place. You just cannot avoid these people!

There are many different factors that can make you feel that there are some bad vibes or negativity around someone. However, most of us have experienced someone who just didn't seem right some how. Example: A person who you just met reminds you of bully you went to grade school years ago. Although the person may or may not be a bad person the past experience was negative and therefore, we've unknowingly or knowingly associated that person we just met with that negative experience.

yeah from my life style growing up and running the streets i had to learn to read people. but i have met many that i didn't care for, because they seem to be fake, or stuck up, thinking they are better then everyone esle. now i have met some even though whatever thier pass or who they are i found to be real and have respect. but pretty much with me, if you ever met me. i am about as real as can be, what you see is what you get. i like pretty much everyone until they give me a reason not too.

yes i have someone who i think is really hard to forget. i just don't know there is something about this person as i get older the more i get to like the person. it is just strange actually. i can't really pinpoint out what is really something in there that i really liked about the person. i tried to deny it or fight over it. but the more i fight the feeling the more it gets stronger. and after years of fighting over the feeling. i just accepted the fact that i can't over this person no matter what i do.

yeah,sometime,i met people at first time,i will feel like or dislike. but when i think this carefully,i find many of them make me remember another one i know,and then,i will have the same feel for them just like for the guys they like. but i really don't know why they can make me remember the guys i known.

I'm not big on instincts, for myself. I have a hard time trusting others. But once I met a guy. He was literally gorgeous!! I automatically hate those, they usually think so highly of themselves. But this one, I automatically trusted him. Very unusual for me. So, being the suspicious sort I am, I tried to find things wrong with him. I didn't stalk him, just watched him at work. He was unfailingly kind, even to the snarkiest people. Had a sense of humor that he kept bottled up tight. Took ribbing very well, even though we were quite rude. Listened to people complain about him that knew him. The things they said about him made me like him even more. I started to respect him, and that ain't normal for me either! I think he was just so darn nice, it oozed out of him. That's why I reacted by trusting him. (I dislike those automatic feelings)

jenInTN, I do have some experience like this when i came newly to US. I came here before 2 years. If i see some people i feel i hav seen them long time and i some how like them. but i feel to talk to them outspokenly but i get frustrated what will they ill think about me and just leave it behind. The whole day i would be thinking about them as days passes i'll try to forget them............. Rathi

yeah! i got the same feeling about some kind of person.and you know what?one of them is my roomates,i have to meet him every day.he is the person that dislike so much that i even don't speak a word to him .but he actually doesn'tdo anything bad to me,the reason why i don't like him maybe because his personality.almost two years past,i still feel nothing better about him,i think this condition will last until my college is over!

Yes. I have met people before and they make the hair on the back of my neck stand up. I know this might sound silly but it's like they creep me out. It doesn't happen often and it doesn't even mean they are nasty people, but if they make me feel 'icky', I don't want to be near them.

i often take an instant liking for some people and at times i just dislike some people for no reason in particular. It is instant bonding or revulsion. some of course i remain neutral to. First impression is often a lasting impression and is difficult to change.

I know what you mean. As an example there is one of the mothers at my daughter's school who gives me a real negative feeling and I just don't feel comfortable around her. She looks and speaks really nicely and is always very polite; she has never done anything bad to me and I feel really awful for not liking her because I can't explain it. Fortunately I don't meet too many people who have that effect on me. I have encountered others who have the opposite effect too of course. I am quite a friendly person who makes friends relatively easy but I cannot explain certain encounters. I put it down to chemistry between people I guess.

Hi Jen.I've come across some people like that too.Most of the time,it's got something to do with their eyes or body language.I would normally tell myself that I may be wrong but for some reason,I just know that I wouldn't get along well with that person. Thanks...Happy mylottin!

I've met a couple of people in my life time that were just "off". I tend to keep my ears and eyes open, and if it is proven to be true, then I generally back away from them.

Hi JenInTN, truely to say, i have the similar experience, but only for the people who i dislike, but the situation like this seems rare. I chose to judge a people after i have some understanding about he or she in order to not be cheat only by the first impresstion. Maybe someone looks like so callous in surface but he is very kind in fact.