I Never Had A Boyfriend Eversince...
By Bvethe21
@Bvethe21 (19)
Philippines
February 26, 2009 11:50am CST
It may sounds funny but it's true...when I was young and a student, it never came up to my mind to be on a relationship. I just want to concentrate on my studies. When I finished my studies and had a work...it really bothers me when I see my friends having their boyfriends with them when we go out and as usual I never had anyone but myself...I keep on waiting to that special someone, but it never came until now.... and I'm in my thirties now...and most of my friends are married and getting married soon.
It's really frustrating that I never experienced to have that someone...celebrate holidays and especially valentines day nor celebrating anniversaries. My younger sister has a boyfriend...and I never had...Every night, I pray that even on my dream I have that someone to lean on...someone to cry on...someone to share my happy moments...I pray that even on my dream I can build my own family...
Now, I fully accepted that I will never had that someone...it may sounds stupid but I really felt it...Now I'm wishing to have him even just in my dreams....
4 responses
@hollysun (97)
• China
2 Mar 09
Hi bvethe.I'm sorry to hear that,but you can't give up.God is fair,in the world,each of us will find the other who love us one day.It's just a matter of time.So ,come on ,you can make more friends and try to know more people ,belive that ,the boy who has loved you all the time will appear.Wish you nice affection and a happy life.
@FehrLady (51)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Please don't lose hope. Just continue to pray that God will give you a loving boyfriend whom you can be compatible and eventually to be your husband. Pray sincerely and believe that it will come true. I have so many friends who have their first boy friend at late thirties. Mingle with your friends. They can help you meet the right man for you. Join clubs or prayer groups. Get out of your shell. Just be sincere in your prayers and trust in God.
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
We are in the same situation Bvethe. When I was studying, I don't have time for fun too because I'm too focus on my studies. Now, that I am working, I don't have a boyfriend. I know it will come to me. So let's just wait. I know our dream man is someone out there waiting for the right time. Just enjoy your being single.
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Feb 09
You shouldn't give up hope of ever finding someone. He is out there. All you need to do is keep your eyes opened. After my mom and dad separated, my mom was single for something like eight years before she finally found someone. I'm sure that she too was close to giving up. That is before she began dating again. So, don't giving up. I'm sure that you shouldn't give up.
