do you feel the differences since you get married ?

Well since you've said you both are still happy about each other then I guess there is really no problem about it. But if you are looking for the things that you do when you were still BF and GF I think that would not be hard since you have a baby to tend to so it means you have to focus more on the child's welfare than to both of you. You are not only husband and wife but you are now also a mother and him a father, in short both of you are parents already and you have a much more bigger responsibility than who you were before you got married.

I didn't feel any reference when I got married to my boy friend. We love each other and now we find more time to be together and have fun. I think in your situation, you can give your husband what you expect from him. If you want him to care you more, care him more so that it will make him to care you more. The same with other things also.

hi, after marriage our boyfriend has become a husband he has got more responsibility to run a family moreover now as we have become a wife so his sure that we will be with them throughout his life, when we are in affair he is scared that we might escaped from his life so he tries to shower all the attentions and love physically so don't bother take it easy as if you think it will become harder for you so take lightly, I had the same notion in the beginning of our marriage but as I started taking lightly I feel happy....if he is supportive to you and give all your needs be happy enjoy the life..

I think you two need to sit down and talk. He might not feel he's getting enough from you and vice versa. Maybe you need to discuss the fact that you too have gotten too comfortable with each other. I know how easy it is to not pretty yourself up for you man, he loves you regardless right? But you have to, you need to show him you want to look good for him. You need let him know you find him attractive as well. I think a romantic outing would be good for you too to discuss these things. And just let him know how you feel and that you want to bond more.

Even if there is no love, but a little more sense of responsibility will be happy.

I think it is still best that you tell your husband your feelings on the situation you are in. I just hope the most of his time is also spend with your kid. If you can, extend your understanding to your husband especially if you feel like he is very responsible as a husband to you and a good father to your kid.

Sometimes when people get married things change, because they get too comfortable with eachother. My hhusband and I are not like that. We are determined to stay the same as we were when we were still boyfriend and girlfriend, not letting things change JUST BECAUSE we are now in a committed relationship.

People always says marriage change people. Now really can say this statement is true because my marriage really has been changing me a lot.

Well first thing I think you should do is talk t your husband about it. Know what do you guys expect from your marriage and work on it together. That's what me and my husband do. Also, for us we didn't feel like there was a difference between us when we got married; I guess because we acted like a married couple when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend. We spend a lot of time together and we talk about everything and anything and we do a lot of fun activities together. Also, try to create that us time when the little on is sleeping or when ever you can. Also remember that marriage is work you have to work at keeping your marriage together and make sure everything with you both are doing good.

yes i think when you get married with your spouse thing change a little bit. and yes it is more romantic when you just started dating or even when you dating, but once you married things change. its like sometimes things taken for granted. my husband is a little bit less affectionate in public unlike when we were dating. happy posting!!!