how to start

India
February 27, 2009 7:11am CST
how do start a relationship?i find a great deal of trouble starting a relationship.i just dont know how to start it.i try sending messages to everyone but none reasponds..please help me!!!!
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4 responses
@cheverlie (237)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
What kind of relationship are you in to? I mean what do you want? friendly relationship, with your family or with the opposite gender?? To start with, you should take your mind that you cant please anyone. There's nothing bad in trying though.
• India
27 Feb 09
well opposite gender.
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
27 Feb 09
This may not be the answer you're looking for, and it's probably one you've heard before, but to me, it's the best: You don't. I have'nt had a whole lot of them, but most of them came when I wasn't looking or trying to start one. Just let it happen, believe me, it will, and I think those are the ones that tend to last longer. The only other thing that I can think of is, if you have a friend, a good friend that you've known for quite a while and you see signs that it could go to the next level, try mentioning it. That happened to me, and I never said anything. We are god friends still, but sometimes I wonder. I never said anyting.
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
it's kinda weird that you're asking how to start a relationship because for me, you don't actually have to plan for it. it something that just develops. it probably starts with friendship and i think that's the way it should because it's the best foundation for a successful marriage. by being friends, you get to see everything you need to know about a person that will help you decide whether he/she is really the right one for you. i hope you find the right one.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
27 Feb 09
well, i think that you should be good friends. try to go out, with others too, and try to make her like you, just from thouse walks, try to get her attention. You`ll know that she likes you a lot, when she will laugh even if you make a bad joke, when she will look at you, and smile without any reason, and when you`ll see her that just when you`re comming, she`s already happy, just because she saw you. You shouldn`t bother her with sms and something like that. Try at at begining to be good friends. The relation will be formed without to know... you`ll see! just try that!