Does he love her? Does she love him?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
February 27, 2009 10:43pm CST
So why do they cheat on us? If they love us.... For me men cheats because of physical attraction, as the number one reason for being unfaithful. With women on the other hand why they cheat to their partner as a revenge for being cheated on. But would you understand this reason, even he/she loves you, will you just go on and discover the reason and try to work it out or just leave the relationship. Have a nice day to all of you!
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3 responses
@snilamupurco_julie (253)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
Whoooaaa... Cheating is another form of "selfish and immature because even if he has already committed himself to another, he acts as though the only feelings, needs, and desires........that matter are "HIS"... Sad but TRUE:(
I have a viewpoint on this though I'm not really a man-hater but pardon me n30wing... MEN do it for "you know what I mean" that women need a reason to have an affair and on the other hand, men just need a "PLACE" hmmmmmm... So what do you think... Can someone convince me that I'm totally wrong?! I like your topic hehehehe:)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
I think men and women can love only one. There is temptation, some can't avoid it, for them pleasure counts a lot and their ego as a man. But for me I don't wanna hurt the one I love and will treasure in my life. Who cares for me and waits for me every night. What is a one night stand when your feeling guilty you already have hurt the person you love. Have a great day to you my friend snilamupurco_julie!
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
If I can see any chances for the relationship. I'll still fight for it.. But if I've done everything to make it work but it never did, I'd rather leave and find my own happiness. I will never be happy in the arms of some that can't be faithful to me...
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
28 Feb 09
I am sure that many will disagree with me, but I feel that you cannot truly love somebody if you can cheat on them. If you truly love someone, you don't want to be with anybody else, even if times are tough. You'd rather stay and work things out than go to bed with someone else. I think that is the difference between love and lust, and they are commonly confused with one another.
I know that I could not cheat on my husband because I don't want anybody else, and couldn't even imagine not being with him. I would not intentionally do anything to hurt him. I don't care if we are fighting for a month without end, I still would not cheat.
