should i tell him i love him?...
@mystic888soul (390)
Philippines
February 28, 2009 1:47am CST
when i saw him, i was afraid to talk to him
when i talk to him, i was afraid to hold him
when i hold him, i was afraid to love him
when i love him, i was afraid to lose him
yes,, this is my situation with my bestfriend who happens to be a guy.. we are so close and unfortunately i wasnt able to control my feelings and now i am in love with him but the sad part of it is that he is inlove with other girl...Every time we are together, he always talks about the girl he is inlove with. of course i always remain and pretend that i am happy because he is happy.. he always tells me that whenever he sees that girl he cant help but smile...the only thing i can do now is wish in silence that someday i will be the girl he will love...but then as of the moment,,i am only his bestfriend.. :(
3 responses
@Jiqiangzhao (100)
• China
28 Feb 09
I really really like the front sentences in your passage. It is really beautiful
both in form and content. Because it comes out from your heart and your real
feeling. I am moved by you. You have fallen in love with your bestfriend but he
knows nothing. I know at the moment for the special reason it is difficult for you
to tell him the truth. You choose just to wait and hope someday you will be his
girl. I have never imagined that girls could be so sane like you.
Just so much and good luck to you, my dear friend!
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
hello jiquangzhao! thank you for appreciating the passage i have posted..i just want to somehow unwind that's why i divert my attention in posting discussions like this and also to get advices cause before i am used to get advice from my bestfriend but in this case i cant ask for advice from him since my situation is related to him..hmmm..i really wish someday i'll be his girl and not just a bestfriend..
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
28 Feb 09
I think sooner or later love would show. So there are chances that your love for him will be realised and accepted as well. Because you are his best friend he might not realise that you love him. Also, do you know if the girl he loves also loves him back? If she doesn't then it is easy for him to give the other person up. I think you should wait for the right opportunity and then tell him about your love for him. Love cannot be forced but it shouldn't be hidden for long either. I hope you get together soon 
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
hi nikky!..uhmm honestly i dont know if the girl loves him...but they always hang out together and from my point of view if the girl doesnt want him why does this girl goes out with him?...hmmmm...i really cant tell..anyway,,thanks for your time in reading this post..i really appreciate it..thanks too for giving an advice..^^
@karubod (603)
• India
28 Feb 09
Hi...mysticsoul, i can understand your feelings for your friend....did you liked him before he fell in love with other girl....?then you could have told your feelings before that ,may be one day you will be lucky .....now a days relations based on just physical attraction don't last long......it's true love that wins at the end....
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
Hi karuBod!,,yes i fell in love with him before he fell inlove with other girl but i wasnt able to tell him since i was afraid that he might avoid me when he found out that i am in love with him...since then i love him in silence..anyway,,thanks for giving me an advice..it somehow give me hope that time will come he will love me too...
