Thinking of getting married

Yes I have some advice for you. Why rock the boat? Your relationship has been going well. Why risk asking your bf to marry you? Did you know 51% of all marriages end in divorce. Your chances of a Happy relationship just got a lot better. Forget the marriage and live happily ever after!

You are 29 yrs old with 5 kids, is he the father of any of them? How long have you two been together? Do your other 3 kids live with you?, cause you mention a 12 yr old and a 2 yr old then you say oh yea I have 3 other kids...having different men in your life can be confusing for kids. Your first priority should be kids, and making life for them. Step families are so hard to deal with. I would think hard about making that decision.