If you are torn between two lovers is it Love or a Sin?

It is a sin, because if you really love 2 persons at the same time, one will definitely get hurt the most, and the impact will not be less to the other two. I would prefer just be friends for a while before I made the decision.

A friend of mine, is now a torn between two lover, he feel like a fool (lol). His ex broke up with him and now he has a new girlfriend, he's still pinning on her but he love her gf. His problem is he just can't seem get over her ex no matter what he do. He lost his ex but he don't want to loose his gf. And he is at risk of loosing his gf if he still don't get over his ex. It's putting a strain in their relationship and his gf getting tired of it. He always call me up to ask for some advices. and these are my advices for my friend and I actually sent him a text with this few words ... (First you have to be honest with yourself. You cannot help who you love. You have to assess the relationship that you had previously, what did you like most about it? My advise is that you progress and not regress. Maybe your current relationship isn't the one for you, unfortunately. You might want to take some alone time to reflect on you. You cannot maintain a relationship if your not mentally stable. Getting over a relationship is not easy, it takes a lot of reevaluation. I wish you the best, but in the end remember that you have to do what is best for you.)