Are you OK if your spouse doesn't tell you everything?

@myhllim (272)
Malaysia
March 1, 2009 9:47am CST
I'm in dilemma, I know my spouse loves me a lot, but I still believe that he keeps something in heart and doesn't want to tell me. This makes me uneasy sometimes. On one hand, I think lovers should be open to each other, to express themselves well and unhide anything. But on other hand, I would think even lover should reserve a privacy for themselve, and I should respect that. What do you think?
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3 responses
laglen
@laglen (19759)
• United States
1 Mar 09
I think respecting once right to privacy is very important. You don't have to know everything.
myhllim
@myhllim (272)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 09
I guess so as we are all distinct individuals no matters how deep the love is.
cortypants
@cortypants (604)
• United States
1 Mar 09
I think it is a little more healthy to keep some things to yourself in a relationship, but I guess it depends on what the secret is. My personal feelings are that you should leave the past in the past. If there is something in your past that doesn't affect your relationship, it's yours. If it affects your current relationship, I think your partner has the right to know.
myhllim
@myhllim (272)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 09
I don't know if that is a past or what, just feel that he keeps something to himself that makes him unhappy sometimes. I asked but he just said nothing. Maybe he doesn't want me to worry on the same thing.
amrith
@amrith (291)
• India
1 Mar 09
As long as he loves you don't think that he is not telling you every thing he loves you and not telling some thing is may be that thing will hurt . love him and leave him in his decisions
myhllim
@myhllim (272)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 09
Ya, I think I should respect his privacy...