what's the best thing to do?
@mystic888soul (390)
Philippines
March 1, 2009 6:54pm CST
the situation is like this
there's this girl who is so much in love with his friend but the guy doesn't know about it and the girl doesn't have any intention of telling it to the guy since they are very close friends and the girl is thinking that if the guy will know about her feelings, chances are..the guy will start to avoid her and be distant from her...so what the girl did was she pretend to be someone else through text messaging..so they texted each other and became so close..everytime they are together the guy is always telling stories to her friend about the textmate he has not knowing that her textmate and her friend is just one person...and then one day the guy told his friend..the girl..that he is in love with his textmate...
so..should the girl tell by now that the textmate and herself is just one person?..
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5 responses
@Cillysophie (327)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Wow. The best thing for the girl to do is to come out and tell the truth. It wouldn't be fun always thinking later in life about what ifs. The girl and the guy are already close friends right? I know it's easier to say than do, but the girl should think about who she might be hurting if she doesn't come out. I mean is she the person this guy has told this too? I know there is a close friendship on the line, but you never know...
@rezax123 (395)
• Norway
2 Mar 09
Dude are you blind? i think you are those kind of person. who likes...........
coz a man and woman or a boy and a girl never could be a close friend. coz the main attraction between two friends(Between boy and girl) is love. other than they never come this much close. are you wanna be blind all the life? come on without any feelings one girl can't be a close friend with a boy. its the truth. grow up buddy. and when she cheat him that was the big mistake. why she cheat! coz now he is thinking that his textmate found him by luck and she discover him by chatting. but she didn't do that. how foolish we boys are.
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
yes,,the girl is the same person whom the guy told how he feels about his textmate..thanks for replying..^^
@meetvivek (226)
• India
2 Mar 09
Yes,the girl should definitely reveal her identity now.She might surprise or annoy her boyfriend but chances are her boyfriend might also get impressed by the unique method she used to tell him her feelings.May be the boy is also shy to reveal her feelings to the girl.
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
thanks for taking time to share your views on this matter..^^
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
I guess the best thing she can do is to tell the guy about the whole story, why did she do this and why did she do that, why did she pretend to be somebody else, etc.. or she can just hide her real feelings towards the guys and regret it for the rest of her life..
@markroderick (888)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
I've experienced it also i fall in love with my bestfriend of 10 years. and i dont have any intention of telling him that i love him. I know there's always a risk in telling of how i feel towards my bestfriend. the risk of being rejected or the worst our friendship will no longer be the same if i told him. with regards to your friend i guess she should be ready to take the risk. for sure her friend will get mad at her feeling that she betrayed him or lied to him. pretending that everytime his friend told her about his textmate as if she doesnt know it. or better yet all she have to do is confessed it to his friend. and it relaly takes a lot of explaining to do.
@rezax123 (395)
• Norway
2 Mar 09
Why not if she wait than it will be waste of time. if that girl told him the truth than he will get angry on her but than after few days he will be back. but that girl must give him enough time to come back. coz she already play her cards and got the result she want. now give him some option to play. beg for mercy. if she don't like or not that's not the prob. it will reduce the time of his come back. i wish both of them good luck
