Abusive Men
By gvannorman
@gvannorman (438)
United States
March 2, 2009 12:44am CST
I just can't stand the fact that there are a few men that give the rest of us a bad name or image. You usually see these guys in the news. For instant, recently Chris Brown made the news by being abusive to his girlfriend Rhianna.
Now, it widely publicized about this abuse. It made them both miss the grammys. Chris Brown was arrested and TMZ posted a photo of Rhiannas face, all battered and bruised. I dont understand what would have drove this man to do such a thing.
Now, it is being reported that Rhianna and Brown are reunited in florida. TMZ is reporting this. What would possess a woman to go back to a man after he did what he did? I am not sure about this. Maybe a woman can shed some light on this subject. My beef is, it is happening way to much these days. Men wake up...stop hitting and walk away. It is the best answer to this. Do Not Hit Some You Love!!!!
1 response
@liza369 (103)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Well I do agree with you completly about why would a woman stay with a man if he does this to you!!! There are women out there who it seems like they just like to be treated that way. There are women who just need to wake up and realize that they shouldn't have to go thru this. I personally know someone who is going thru this right now and she tells me the reason she leaves is that she isn't strong enough to do so and that she was abused as a child so therefore she thinks that she deserves something like that. I was in an abusive relationship at one point but I was strong about it and left and I'm sure glad I did.
@gvannorman (438)
• United States
2 Mar 09
I cant believe that a woman would think that shey deserve to be in a relationship where they are treated like this. I dont think that it takes a very strong man to beat a woman, either physically or mentally.
Woman at the same time need to wake up and get out. Do not let men like this keep you down and make you feel like you cant live with out them. There is more to life than what you are currently going through. So, stand up and move out. Go tell someone what is happening there is help out there.
Seek and you shall find the help you need.
Thank you for your comment. Happy MyLoting
@liza369 (103)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Yes I agree with you that woman should leave if they are in this type of relationship. I am no longer in an abusive relationship. Yes woman should reach out and talk to someone. On that same note you can't help someone if they don't want to be helped or arent willing. My friend who is currently in an abusive realtionship obviously doesn't want to help be helped.
@gvannorman (438)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Correct, you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. But, you can keep offering, we should never give up on someone who hopefully will eventually want the help.
