He's made me crazy!!!
By mam2009
@mam2009 (7)
United States
March 2, 2009 2:32pm CST
I have been seeing this guy who is 10 yrs younger than me for a yr now. I have ignored all the reg flags that say...he's cheating, he's a player...he says all the right things. He has me caught in some freaking web! We have gone thru a lot this yr and he has stayed with me thru some difficult things. I feel in some way no man would have stayed if they didn't love me. But I still haven't met his friends, we haven't spent any holidays together not even valentine's day. He always has some very reasonable excuse. But now I have found him on facebook and myspace and guess what? Yep...he won't add me as his friend!!! Yet he has a whole lot of other women on there...including an ex-girlfriend. Now my head is spinning out of control! I have been going out of my mind trying to figure out a way to see what the hell he's got going on with all these girls! I have given him outs...saying if he's not serious about me to let me go so I can find someone who is...but he won't let go. Has anyone out there ever gone thru this??!!!
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6 responses
@ljames8585 (129)
• Canada
15 Apr 09
I would move on. Their is something going on that he seems to be hiding. let go now before things become worse and more attachment. Listen to your gut and if you are thinking something is up, their more then likely is. Especially if he isn't adding you as a friend or having reasons after reasons on why he is not spending certain holidays with you, or any for that matter. He might think that he's got it all under you and you don't know a thing......
@Chris0309 (8)
• United States
27 Mar 09
You need to just walk away..if he was really worth keeping you would be questioning yourself or the relationship...because it sounds like you already know whats up..
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I believe in woman's instinct. I've tested it a lot of times and so far it hadn't disappointed me. Whenever he's up into something I don't think I'll like, I felt a big load placed in my chest and get difficulties in breathing. Days after that I'll just learn that he'd done something. The only forgivable thing there, is that he doesn't know how to lie or keep secrets. He tells me everything that is to know especially when he feels it will threaten to break our relationship. He's a charmer, I agree and girls just go loco over him. And when his charm makes it way too out of hand, he puts me upfront and says, hey I'm committed. Funny but sometimes I just wish he doesn't get girls attention that easy. I'm a jealous type of person and I'm really having a hard time coping up with it. It makes me crazy just thinking how many girls will be charmed by him. Yet I think I'm making a real good job in coping up. we're in our 8th year now and so far the feeling's there and nothing has changed.
@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
2 Mar 09
Yes, I have. Before I met my husband, I was playing the field. I met a guy I really liked and we did spend time together, go out on dates, etc. He lived in another town and he only gave me his cell number, but not his home number. He always had his cell phone off. Sometimes he would call me. I could never go to his house. Later on I found out that he lived with someone. BOY was I mad. Here is my advice on this: always follow your gut instincts. There is a reason you are suspicious, don't push it out of your mind. If you think he is fooling around, he is. Dump him, move on and forget about him. Life is way too short to waste it on guys who want to mess with your head.
@csrobins (1120)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Drop this kid. He is immature and will probably grow up to be a jerk. Don't just be another one of his many women. The reason he won't let go is because he doesn'y want to be the one for once being rejected and likes to be in control-hence the multiple women. Show him a little something and drop him like he's hot and find someone way older and more mature who knows what he wants out of life!
@yspring (272)
• China
9 Mar 09
i read your story,i will tell you something raelly ,i feel you boyfriend do not love you ,you will see loves spend their holiday together,not to metion the valentine's day,
but something happen to me just the opposite .i love a girl ,but time elapsed ,she never say love me,but i love her so much,i will stay in love with her,more important i want to get a reply,if you have same good ideas for me ,i will be grateful. thank you .last wish you get out of the trouble earlier..
