Your Self Confidence

United States
March 2, 2009 5:23pm CST
How to you increase or boost your self confidence when feeling down? Some days i just feel like im ugly, none of my clothes are looking good on me and i just dont want to go out and be in public and have to see someone i know out. I hate these days but what can i do to boost my self confidence on these days?
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
3 Mar 09
i look at it this way, ok here i am god made me this way. if i don't like my weight i do something about it. i might not be the best looking dude out there, no big muscle or fansty cars. but there sure is more ugler mugs then me. i think what all my good stuff is as a person, and all the rest i just think i except things i can;t change and work on things i can and do it the right way
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@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
3 Mar 09
Yes, its happened to me. I dont know, i just felt terrible at that time, and i hate myself. I know what you feel, at that time i was so lazy to go out because im not in the mood to meet people. Hmm... But i dont know later on im open my internet, and i see a very nice fashion website. And i saw there are many beatiful girls with beautiful dress, maybe not that gown or dress, but even only with shortpants and blouse, they can look so gorgeous. hm... So, i dig myself more and more if i can be like them, at least i can follow the style there, the hairstyle,the shoes, the bags, the pants, and make my eyes trained to look for nice and good quality fashion design and i found myself is really into it. I make over my self, go to the salon and have a nice haircut. I do also go the mall to buy the similar blouse like in the internet, even not the exact blouse or pants, but its similar in color, its allright. And later on i found myself become more enjoy with mylife. I have my own style and im happy to be like now. Im getting my own confidence that i have my own style and my friends asked me where i bought the stuff. Im not really into branded products, but i bought it because its look similar to the internet. You must think that im become the victim of the internet fashion, partially yes, because im learning to know about the sense of fashion without spend to much bucks just only for buying high price and branded product. They products i bought have nice color and the model are similar to the internet and i copied some style there... and its really look nice in me... hehehe... All i can say, every body actually beautiful, you only need to dig more on yourselves. If you want to learn more about fashion and the sense of dress... try to look for this internet website. Its asian fashion but i think it will applicable in your country, just have your own style and dont be tempted to be the same like the girls in the mall... because the more unique and good you dress, and they will probably look at you and they may also copy your style. I did have my make over with my hairstyle and my friend who is really fashionista, copied my hairstyle. What happened with this girl? A fashionista copied someone who is actually not good in fashion? www.yesstyle.com
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• Canada
2 Mar 09
I like to do my hair and makeup on those days. I also put on a sexy number, if I have something good. Doing some exercise is remarkably helpful to raise your spirits. Did you ever talk to your doctor about it? Maybe you need vitamin B12 supplements or something. I had a firend who suffered from "blues" like yours and it turned out to be a vitamin deficiency.
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