Cyberbegging, anyone?

Moore that's good that you can find other ways to solve the problem than cyberbegging. I respect you a lot for that because you want to stretch your brawn and work hard. Kudos to you.

The laptop was not bought for me by me. It was bought for me by my father for school. After I posted that discussion, I boxed it back up and gave it back to him. I am not annoyed by your response, I perfectly understand the miscommunication. And no, I did not get money for the laptop, either. He charged it to his credit card, and it was promptly removed from the credit card once he returned it to the store. I understand that you can't afford to spend that much on a laptop. Who can?? I use a second-hand desktop, which I am quite happy with I might add. When I said that I didn't want to be lectured, it was because a nerve was hit when my choice of having children was criticized. Lecture me about money all you want. I don't have anything left to sell except for my car....which I am trying to do right now. What would I spend the money on?? I just found a 1972 single-wide trailer for sale for $2500. (I have saved about $1500 of it) My kids need a home, and I intend to provide one for them. As soon as this baby is born, I will get a job. I've been trying for over a month, but when I go into an interview, the interviewer immediately looks down to my stomach. So, I just have to wait a few more weeks. No matter what, I refuse to give up. I am not now nor have I ever been someone who is able to sit on my duff and let someone else take care of me. I also would not lie about my situation. I have been thinking about the whole begging thing, and to tell you the truth, I don't really like the sound of it. At first it sounded interesting. But the more I think about it, the more it makes me think of someone who stands at the intersections with a cardboard sign. But thank you for your constructive criticism. I just wanted to clarify the fact that NO, I was not the one who blew that much money on a useless piece of plastic.

Ok fair enough! I was just confused when I saw your other discussion. I actually admire you for doing something about your situation and I really hope things work out for you which I'm sure it will as it sounds like your a wonderful Mum who really cares about your children. Thanks for your response back and I wish you all the best:)

LOL, I had never heard of it either. But you have to admit, at least it is honest. No scam involved. No promises made. I don't know if anyone would be willing to do this or not either. I was just wondering if anyone had had any dealings with this kind of thing.

I hope everything is going well for you and that you are healthy now. I would really appreciate any suggestions you may have. As for my kids, they will never know just how bad it is. I have to keep my head up for them. Thank you.

I see you accepted my friend request so I'll go ahead & send you a PM in a few minutes about it. I'll tell you the job I'm doing plus, if you'd like, some of the other online programs I'm in. Unfortunately though, none of them will produce immediate money but hopefully they will help out. Jill

Thank you. Sometimes it feels as though I am all alone in the world. I know that with the economy like it is, I am not. But it still helps to hear that there are others out there who are going or have gone through the same thing and have worked their way out of it. I will keep trudging through the mud. God will be with us. God Bless.

First of all, there was no problem with me having children. We had two and decided to have a third. I was on the Depo shot when I found out that it didn't work and the fourth was on the way. God wanted me to have a fourth child, I'm having a fourth child. The father of my children can't give any financial support because he is no longer with us. The only thing I asked is if anyone out there has ever tried asking for help. I didn't want to be lectured. But thank you all the same.

I am fighting with Social Services right now. I applied for Medicaid seven months ago. They are still trying to get the paperwork straight. They lost hald of my first application, and didn't bother calling me to let me know that they didn't have what they needed. Now, they need a wage verification form from my ex-boss. I spent a month almost trying to get her to fill it out. Now, they are trying. She just wants to be a (*&%^. It took me two weeks to get my last paycheck from her. I had to threaten to call the Labor Board on her. So, because of this, everything is on stand-still. But while I am waiting for some kind of help, I am still pounding the pavement in my search for work. I know they can't refuse to hire me because I'm pregnanyt. They always give me some other excuse such as someone else with more experience applied, or that they needed someone for different hours than I am available. Most of the time, they just don't call me back. And when I call them, they put me through to voice mail. But everything is fine until the face-to-face interview when they blatantly look down at my stomach. Oh well. A few more weeks and maybe I will be able to find something. I don't even care if it's waiting tables or flipping burgers. I'll do anything.

It's not that I really feel sorry for myself. I am panicking. I have never not had a job, and I have never not had a home for my children. Unfortunately, my family is in construction, and it will cost about $14,000 to fix my house. And it doesn't even belong to me. It belongs to my brother-in-law, who wouldn't care if the place fell down to the ground. So, I really don't want to put the money (if I had it) into fixing the place. The floors are completely rotted through, and there is mold growing. Not a pleasant situation. But it's ok. I understand completely about not having any money. I hope your husband finds work soon. I know a lot of people who have lost their jobs recently. It seems as though everyone is looking for a job. I will definitely keep you posted as to our situation. You do the same. God Bless.