this is what i want to be...
By lalola24
@lalola24 (130)
United States
March 2, 2009 11:08pm CST
the sweetest thing that you can be for your kids, is to be a great mom...you need not to be perfect for theres no such thing as perfect but at least your showing your best for them .....so sad that my mom is cruel to us.....not physically...but verbally...emotionally and that all i can remember is pain....since my childhood...my life is full of drama...i knew im not the only one whos having such but i really said to myself im not gonna be like her if i will have my own child soon....
3 responses
@annalapse (31)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
to be a mom is such a hard job. you are not just physically stress out but also emotionally. Maybe you're mom during you're childhood days is just so stressed out that she turned out to be verbally abusive. The good side about it is that you know what not to do with your own children. I myself struggle everyday to be a great mom to my 3 kids. As a full time mom, I devote most of my time to my kids. But i also have a time for myself to relax and regenerate my energy in order for me to have the strength to take care of them again. A happy mom is a great mom. Great mom enjoys what she is doing. So to all the mommies out there, great job and we are all great moms. :) have a nice day.
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
welcome to mylot lalola, hope you like it here like most of us do. i am sorry to hear that you have a sad childhood and nice to hear that you are giving the opposite thing to your children. i have four teen children and i am a single mom.... left my abbusive husband and tagged my kids along with. i am not perfect, i sometimes say somethng that hurt my children's feelings but i was hurt too when i said that. but we do have a good and cute relationship. it is not easy to be a mom and a dad at the sametime.... but i am happy and proud of myself that i can do it. i am proud of my children as well. keep up the good work... for being a great mmom.
