Do you think being faithful is a choice?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
March 3, 2009 4:32am CST
Monogamy brings stability to a relationship. Instead of going out of the marriage or relationship,involving other people, using other people, avoiding issues, monogamy keeps the focus between two individuals. Monogamy is the ideal. Infidelity will not make for a healthy, secure and safe relationship. Have a great day!
4 responses
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Well it is really a choice. When you said being faithful and to love only one and no other is really a choice we make for our selves not because someone has to influence us or so but to the extend of what you believe will do better for you and the obedience you have for God will also manifest itself if you chose to do what is right.
So many people decide what they want and what is best or what will be the outcome of being polygamous but they end up regretting more and having to cause pain others because of their decision.
The word faith means believing without even seeing. This applies to a relationship when you put your trust to your partner that even if you don't see what he is doing when you are not around, you believe that he is doing right and well for your benefit.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
You said it right and precisely. What can I say more that is why I given you the best remarks. All of us have a choice. We make our own life, and we make our mistakes. Being with only one I know it's tough, but that is my choice having one partner, it's just how we handle it, even it did not work out fine, still no regrets. Have a nice day to you!
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Thanks! For us, it is a vow we pledge for each other and God as our witness. It is sanctified and Holy and we must live according to what the law of God is telling us.Happy Mylotting!
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Majority of the societies enforced monogamy as one on one relationship. We believe that love on only one is the healthiest relationship, and we should keep on doing it. While in other religion, so I read and heard, man or woman can have multi - relationship, and it is normal. We deem it as unfaithful norm in a society. How we going to determine it, it is base on personal concept to see it.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
I think it is a choice if you just want to stick on just one relationship. Still do respect other peoples choices. It's not the society it's the person it self that makes a his/her life. What makes her/him happy. We only have one heart to fall in love, to treasure a lifetime commitment. Have a nice day to you!
@mystic888soul (390)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
yes..it's a choice..i believe that everything in life is a choice..^^
