What is your answer?
By mirmacs
@mirmacs (52)
Philippines
March 3, 2009 7:35am CST
What will you say if a young sexy woman came to you seriously and confide her problem that she doesn't have child yet since she got married three years ago. What could have been the problem really when her in-laws have a lot of children and her simblings too have plenty as well. Well, I have the answer in mind. But what is your answer?
3 responses
@jdholloway624 (46)
• United States
23 Mar 09
Unfortuntely, there are a lot of things that could be "wrong" (and I hate to use that word, because a lot of things are easily fixed). The most inexpensive thing she can do is take her basal body temperature every day. To do this, all she has to do is get a thermometer (a digital one; mine cost 2.99) and take her temperature at the same time every morning, before she even sits up in bed. She needs to start the day her period starts and guage it from there. If about halfway through her cycle her temperature climbs suddenly (and stays there) then that means she's ovulating, and is able to bear children. If her temperature is erratic or stays low, she is not releasing eggs. A woman cannot conceive unless she is releasing eggs.
If she's ovulating, my bet is the guy is suffering from low sperm count or some other form of infertility.
If she's NOT ovulating, there could be numerous things causing her infertility. I won't waste your time listing them all, but she will need to see her ob-gyn. After several months of trying to conceive, I realized I wasn't ovulating and my doctor found I just needed a bit of Clomid. But many other tests were performed first, all if which were quick and painless.
@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Well, I have been married for 4 years already and still does not have a child. All we could do is guess what her problem could be but the best way to know is to have her checked by an OB Gynecologist. A lot of factor can contribute to her still not yet conceiving, she could have PCOS, she is not ovulating, she has a blocked fallopian tube, she has an inverted uterus and the list could go on. We should also consider the probability that it could be her husband who has a problem. 40% of the problem of those couples who are trying to conceive is because of the husband. It's just that whenever a couple do not have a child yet, they jump into conclusion that it is the wife who has the problem. And also, most men do not want to have themselves checked by a doctor because they could not admit that they probably have a fertility problem too.
@mirmacs (52)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
She also has gone to OB Gynecologist and told me a lot of factors that could have caused it. It did not remember what was the problem really because I give her my advised immewdiately. I sound rediculous but it works. Try to read my comments in your blogs because the answer is there. If you want to reply simply, through mylot.
@luningning (43)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
why should she go to you? i would advised her to have a serious talk with her hubby and together see a doctor for such problem.
