What if you find your spouse found you are no longer attractive to him/her...

There's a reason why you fell out of love. Couple do go through this stage when they feel unlove or no longer attractive. Communication is actually the key to this problem. The couple needs to talk their feelings out to each other so that they can do something about it to help make things better for them. Staying in love with your partner is an unending process. And the only way to stay in love is by being able to express your feelings toward your partner may it be good or bad.

If the basis of our marriage was built only on outward appearance, then that will be a big problem. We didn't got married because of our appearance, but because we believe that by God's grace we are together to love each other and share what we have for each other to Glorify our Maker. If the start of the relationship was just based on getting only the wants physically, then the foundation is not deep and strong. It is a relationship that will not last because one way or the other, the person is expecting this to you so that you will meet his or her criteria. I am sure that most people here will say that their love for their spouse is far more than skin, but when it comes to Spiritual battles, then the enemy deceives a lot because the hearts motive is not checked and the center of the relationship was not God. This is my opinion. Happy Mylotting!

Well immediately I would observe that what is it I am doing that is making me unattractive. Will give myself a new look and instead of focusing on my husband I would try to give my life a new meaning.

plain and simple...move on. dont waste precious life trying to make somethin work that just wont. life is way to short your not even gauranteed 2moro in fact. make the most of it. be hppy

Hi, I will adopt the "compensatory Mechanism" procedure... Overcome the so-called Weak area by expanding my strong area(area of mutual liking). =lahiri,Kolkata,India.