dance with another guy...

A dance is a dance, its not a date. If you go with someone then you should at least dance a few dances with them - but even that's not required. My sister used to date a guy and he DIDN'T dance, nothing could drag that STUMP out on the dance floor, so she danced with whoever. (Ya think I didn't like the guy?)

it is really cool.sometimes it's happen.someone comes in life and give give cool breathe and go away from us.so remember it is a happy moment not more than that .

manya_pearl, First and foremost, I think you have a rather unhealthy conception about dancing and I just hope that your boyfriend does not hold a similar prerogative here. No offense and I am not being condescending here, but I hope that you will view dancing as a form of social grace, an expression of yourself, most of all does not and should not have any hidden agenda other than literally enjoying ourselves like everyone on the dance floor. I can understand that there will always some rotten apples in the barrel who will just take away the fun by being downright low with their promiscuity and trying to find some "fun" in the other sense. Then, you can push these characters away and reject their next request as they just do not deserve your company. However, if you have a dance partner that literally likes dancing, who knows how to respect a lady, able to share the joy of dancing and knows how to lead, I do not need to tell you not to hold back and go and enjoy the time of your moment. Just do not think elsewhere and if you are conscientious in your ways I am sure you will not only be able to gain your boyfriend's admiration, trust and most of all approval as well. The part of being able to tell if your potential partner is a gentleman or deviant is just another life lesson about trying to know a person and how to deal with the situation that arises. You will also be able to learn how to be graceful even when you need to disapprove some people. On the other aspect, your boyfriend should be able to trust you and understand that there is nothing demeaning as far as dancing is concerned. I do not know about you but there are certain dance functions where we have experiences where we sometimes get dance partners other than our life partners or boy/girl friends and there is nothing else to it other than a dance. And, yes I would not mind my partner know or rather literally tell her that I had dance with someone at a social function and expects her to understand and trust me. So, it would really help here if the both of you can learn to think out of the box and it will certainly do a lot of good for everyone. with valuable lessons to be learned here. Again, forgive me if I sounded condescending here, but I can assure you I am pointing at the other direction and I hope you get what I am trying to tell you here. So, till then, do enjoy yourself as much as you can in life including dancing and stay happy. Take care.

My man allows me dance with any one any time. as a matter of fact, he asks me if i want to dance with his friends. but he makes sure it doesnt go beyond there.

Hello my friend manya_pearl Ji, I think, there is no pre-fixed time for falling in love with anyone. I think, during your school/college days, you ahd some sort of soft corner for this guy, which has just been emerged out by his persistant request and your obligation. Still, you call other guy as your friend and never taken place to become life partner, who knows this party might be a turning point in your life. You have to watch yourself. next, i wish you reveal and disclose everything to your so called friend. So that nothing sails rough in your life in future. may god bless you and have a great time.