I got bad news

i feel so sorry about your bad news. i hate disease ! hope people all stay in healthy. god bless your friend.

hey dear 'dont worry it might only be the confusion to the doctors ,everything will be fine all the reports will come ok.u just try to make ur freind be strong.i will pray for your freind.

I'm so sorry to hear this news. I'm hoping the other tests rule out cancer. My prayers at this time.

Oh Winterose, Thoughts and prayers are with you all right now and hopefully this will be a false alarm for Matt bless him. Healing huggles. I hope you do not have to wait too long for the result. God bless you all in this horrible worrying situation. Huggles. Ellie :D

So sorry to hear this. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers in this time of hardship.

i hope all will be ok...

Winterose, I'm so sorry to hear of this news. I will pray for you and your family. Blessings, Dixie

It's best not to get too wound up about this, my friend. Sometimes, the doctors give you the worst scenario so that it doesn't hit so hard where tumours are found to be malignant. Don't hold onto their every word is what I'm saying. Even they won't know until the tests come back, so it's not worth the agony. Hugggggggggggs to you, my friend. Try some chamomile tea... sip it slowly and try to stay calm about this... I'm sure Matt will appreciate your support, rather than the shock element. He needs that right now... imagine how he's feeling if you feel panic-stricken. I know it's hard... my close friend has been walking on eggshells too. He had twenty-six pounds of tumour removed from his stomach, eight years ago now. They couldn't get it all, and it came back to his liver once or twice, but they've managed now, they think, to get it all, and he's survived a 50/50 situation for eight years, which has now turned around to 80/20. So you see, with a little support and belief, even if it is what they think, he can get through it! Meanwhile, I'm sending my healing energies to both of you, both spiritual and physical, in the hope that you will find the strength to come out of this, with renewed hope. Brightest Blessings my dear friend... keep the faith! xx

Right you are to just not think about this now. Wait for the results and remain as positive as possible. I'm so glad you came here to share this for us and look for support. We can all be thinking positive for you and wishing you the best. Be strong, my friend.

Gosh how scary. It's been 4 weeks. Is there an update?

Hi Winterose, I am so sorry to hear this. I hope you find some solace in God. Please remember that all things are for a reason even though many times we can't understand those reasons. Very sad situation...my prayers are with you and your family. ~G~

Ohh I am sad to know that ma'm. I am sorry. We will just pray nothing worst would happen after Matt's test. We'll just hope and pray ma'm...

Just pray hard that the result will be negative. At this time, Matt really needs your support so just be there in his side and give him encouragement to be braved enough to face anything that comes in his life.

hi rose, it is old discussion so he must be ok now..I felt sorry to hear about that a bad news from Matt, winterose. I wish he will doing fine and felt sorry about his mother illness.I am sure its really bad that kinds of trial just be strong and kept praying that wouldn't happened.how is he now?

I have had prsotate cancer, so I can really sympathize with the worry that you and Matt are having to face. I really hope that everything turns out all right.

I am really sorry to hear that. especailly for his children to go through this twice and when its your parents I can't imagine the hurt and pain. I pray they catch it and get rid of it My prayers are with you and your Love

iam so sorry honey! i know how bad that is. i lost my hubby to that horrible disease in '02. lets hope it is something else that is managable or like my cancer, which was cut out and i had 36 radiation treatments but its been 9yrs and im still here. so dont ever give up hope.

I am so sorry winterose. The worst thing is not knowing, this is what I have found it life. Not knowing. Once you have found out what it is then you begin to deal with it and discuss the options. I do hope that it is not cancer. I will be praying for your partner. Blessings

hey keep faith in god and everything would be ok ..medical science are advancing very fast and cure for cancer should not me much far away ..but it is very depressing and bad news and i feel sorry for not only you but also for his wife and kids.

yes ,the cancers relate the life of someone,no more words to say ,just keep ourself heathy ,that's best ,pay attention to ourself