If love is not a sin, why can't we love two people at the same time?

Hello there, sweet_mom! ^_^ Love is not just for couples. You can share it to all. In a relationship, if you do love two persons at the same time, love is already a sin. It is considered cheating. And remember, "The wheel of karma is run only by our sin c0mmitment." Happy mylotting! ^_^

Lol. This is a nice statement. Dear, you can evern love more than two at the same time, but the type of love should vary, otherwise you will suffer some after effects. Lol. I like this topic. :-) Have a nice day.

that makes no sense. love is not a sin. love is the most beautiful force in the universe. loving only one person doesn't make it sinful.

Hi As we all know,love is blind. Ofcause LOVE is not a sin. But when person have two people to love, they must be honest and be fair to both of them. so good luck :)

love is never a sin.. its rather a blessing. loving two at a time is fine. u do love two friends at a time and even more mostly. but this boyfriend / girlfriend relation ship, ii confess i wouldn't approve of it. not that it is sin or not allowed r allowed in religion, but i feel in such a relationship you game on two you r playing with both of them and more over your own feelings. and i feel you when you love one you can give it fully whole heatedly to a single person. love is not a piece of bread to share between as many as you want its the sweetest feeling which you cherish only when there is one destination. i know it is very rightful to ask why you cant love tow, i am sure no one out there can surely tell you a reason why you shouldn't , n there is nothing really as such shouldn't, yet as i feel very strongly it is some thing you cherish when you give it to one and only one person. atleast when it comes to love you dont wist to be shared with some one else seeming as important as you . and i am sure that would lead to a kind of insecurity among not only those two but all the three... sorry if i offend any one out there i dint really intend to

That's an interesting question. In my view, we should consider this problem on the other side. On my side, maybe you could love two person at the same time, well, then, the person you loved also love two persons at the same time, what do you think? how about your feelings? That's unfair to all of us. Love can not be shared i think. It is selfish. So I always consider one person could only love one person in a period of time, loving two persons in the same time is imporssible and wrong.

Hi sweet_mom! Welcome to Mylot! Love is a very broad term. We may and can love as many as you want, but if the love you are referring to is a love towards a significant other, still you can and may love more than one. It is not a sin to love, yet it is not morally proper and right when you "shall" love two persons at the same time and at the same degree. When you weigh the love, you can feel that someone is more considered and deeper. The intensity is not the same, especially when you see the comparisons. As mentioned by one of your respondents here, you shall commit yourself to only one. Because if you do commit yourself to many, it will be contrary to moral norms. The immorality is more apparent more if you are legally married and still commit yourself to another. Which in effect is contrary to law of God and law of Man.

we are to love one another. but the case in this situation is different. we are to only love 1 in particular for the reason that we are to share our lives to that person. that is why 2 become 1...

First of all, morally, loving two people at the same time is wrong let's after taking the sacrament of matrimony(...for catholics). Second, loving two persons at the same time is considered cheating. I guess that explains why we can't share our love with two people.

Love is not a sin. But to be unfaithful to the person you love is definitely a sin. Loving multiple partner at the same time is not loving at all. You're just toying to the feelings of your partner. To love means being able to commit yourself wholeheartedly, uncoditionally to your partner. This means, you give devote your love to only one partner at a time. Not all at the same time.

we can love as many people we want to but the only limit is that we just have to commit with one partner only..loving someone is never a sin..but committing with two different person that's the time loving isn't permitted

When we are in Love, there seems to be a hormonal relation between brain and mind. Though our decision about Love is fully dominated by mind, we tend to give the credit to heart. Anyway, since there is only one heart and only one brain in our skeleton, we are in true love with only one person at a time. Silly answer, ain't it? I just wanted to respond. It is really a tough question and demands not only psychology but more than that.

lol, we could love two or more people at the same time but its always on different level. hehehe.. seriously i understand what you mean in your question, we call that faithfulness.. if we are into relationship, we remain faithful to our partner and if we love someone else others tell it a sin.. but of course, it always depend on the act the person torn between two persons he/she loves.. it will only be a sin if he/she lie either the two of them or both of them.

When we love, we love only "one". We have a lot of choices before we decide which one to love. It is important to every one to obey the rule of this society. In other aspect, there are many male whose number is the same to femal. I think balance is the root.

This question is a little tough. I think you can love two persons at one time but you can just have relationship with one of them. Unfortunately such kind thing happened to me. I can't control my feelings but I can control my activities. It's something about morality, maybe. The one I have chosen I will love him more and I will try to forget the other boy. It's not ashamed. But you must do in right way. Good luck!

that is basically wrong. we can love as many people as we want. however, if love in this instance is the kind of love you would show to a spouse, then, that's different. this is where a) the kind of environment b) the kind of person you are c) the kind of person whom you want the world to see as you d) the kind of person you want your offspring/s would like to see as you and e) some even say the kind of genes you got from your parents all play a role together in the outcome of your decision.

I agree with love is not a sin and I think we can love two people at the same time. But once you think about this will hurt one of your two lovers, I will then stop loving one of them. Or at least I am not going to let that happens. Stop the love when it begins. If one cannot do it, I think one must love the new comer more than one's old lover, as it breaks his heart but one still do that way.