boyss
United States
March 4, 2009 3:46am CST
So i talkin to this guy and hes a lil older then me and he has kids..
well he is trying to play games with my feelings.. he be treatin me like i gotta call or text him all the time then he dont be answerin me..
i dont know what to do i like him and all but i cant have him controllin me..
4 responses
@lexi19 (25)
• United States
19 Mar 09
The best thing to do is stand up to him... Tell him you are not his daughter and you have your own rights. He will do one of 3 things... 1. Tell you that you are right and he is just being overprotective and actually try and change. 2. He will get mad at you and try to control you still in which case... LEAVE RIGHT AWAY!!!!!!!!!!! 3. He will say he is sorry and that he will change.. but only for a short period of time, in which he will slowly but surely try to control you little by little until you fall in love with him and feel like you are stuck... which is so horrible... trust me.. i know from experience! If he is not willing to give you trust than he's not deserving of you.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
4 Mar 09
main word control. kick his butt to the curb and get yourself a real man. you desreve much better then that and his dumb games.
move on
@22angel22 (450)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Tell him how you feel then.. If he doesn't like it and stops talking to you, its better that it happened now than after you got into a relationship with him.
@justkay1122 (81)
• Canada
4 Mar 09
he is not controlling you. You are allowing hio do what he wants. If you take a stand and dont allow him then he cant do it right??
