Do you think you can really trust your friends?
By tkleyr
@tkleyr (406)
Philippines
March 4, 2009 7:33am CST
Do you think you can really trust your friends in all aspects?Sometimes it makes me confuse eventhough i knew my friends for a year but still im not yet confident to share my secrets on her, i just afraid that she/he will going to tell someone my secrets..how about you my co-mylotters do you share your secrets to your friends?
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@frailoctober (2)
• Canada
4 Mar 09
i have a lot of friends, but i trust only a handful of them. And i only trust one of them with almost everything. It's not bad to trust your friends, however you should be careful. Sometimes your bestfriend could turn out to be your greatest enemy. There are secrets I choose to share, especially if I know it will both make us grow and learn something from it. But there are some secrets that i'd rather keep to myself. =)
@jstaubin (423)
• United States
5 Mar 09
I trust some of them. a person has to be my friend for a long time and really be true before I will trust them with my secrets.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
4 Mar 09
only with a few friends i can and will. something are best left hidden in my closet way back in the back of it
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@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
4 Mar 09
I think that it is hard to really know when you can trust someone. It might have to take some time to really get to know a person before you can decide on how much you are willing to share with them. I know that I have trouble trusting friends or any one for that matter. I try to be friendly and have tried to keep in touch with friends over the years but it seems that people just have a way of fading off somewhere and I can't find them or they don't call back or something.
I just figure on keeping things the way they are right now. I have a family of my own and I love my son very much. I would like to have friends outside of my family but I have become very choosy in what I want from people. I don't want material things or just seek a friend to find what I can get out of them. I just want to have a friend that I can spend time with and that will listen and not betray me in any way.
I know that I mentioned that I am happy with my family for now but it would not hurt for me to get out and still try to socialize. I am still sort of new in my area since moving from up north in Pennsylvania last year. But I figure on still trying to make acquaintances.