my father still scolds me

Have you ever talked about it with your dad? I think you should just tell him directly you are no longer his little boy, you are married, you konw how to make right decision, when he wants to tell you something, just simply suggest but not YELL at you in front of everybody. You are his son, you respect him and he should respect you either. Don't be so sad, It is not the end of the world, be optimistic. :-)

If you want this to stop, you will need to stand up to him in a respectful way. You need to speak to him alone and let him know how this makes you feel when he speaks to you this way. Until you do this, he will continue this behavior, that is why you need to let him know that it is NOT OKAY.

Hello chimrani!I just checked your profile and it shows your age as 20.Here you are saying you are 25.Why this confusion? Okay!Leave it.I think you have done love marriage however convincing your parents.But still you are not earning full time job.So,your father is scolding you whenever you do some mistakes.I think he wants you to be more responsible.It is the nature of fathers who can't show their love explicitly.They want their kids to settle well in life.Take his words as out of compassion and earn a quick job and relieve him from tensions.Cheers!

You said you are married? and you are still living with your parents? is this mean that you have a separate room only but still in your parents house? I don't think that it is a good idea for me still living with my parents if i am married, usually when you said you are married, you already established your own life, you live only with your wife. What is the reason why your father is still scolding you at your age? do you think he is right on what he is telling you. You better be more responsible now that you have a wife, what if you have kids, do you think you are still depending on your parents? When we do get married, we have to depend on our own ,stand in our own and we are old enough to handle our married life, but parents will still be there to help us but please i suggest, you have to be independent by now.

can i give an idea...? when they scolds u.....just give a sweet innocent smile to them until they stops...... i uses this trick many times.....and it works for me.....!!! warning: no need to leave the parents....!!! what will u do when ur child will leave u.....??????#??? u will cry...... So...if u likes to see ur parents cry ....then go for it..... thats all i have to say............#######

Either leave. if you dont want to leave then call the cops. Hes putting his hands on your violantly. He could get arrested for battery or something along those lines. then leave anyways with your family. Your not stuck you have a right you can leave. its just up to you.

Hi chimrani, I know how you feel, and I do understand you. A father is a Father he just wants you to be the best. I know that it's very hard to be scolded the feeling is so miserable. But in the long run you can tell yourself that I just learn life the hard way. I remember my parents told me before that if I scold you not because I don't love you, it's just that I love you son so much. From this pain we get to be strong and be a better man. I think it's the right time for you to go on with your life and learn and that is leaving the house and prove that they are wrong. God created you cause he loves you. I think you have to be separated to your parents to grow and learn life alone. Stop making self pitying grow up and spread your wings. Crying will just make you more negative. Problems are just temporary. There is always solution with it. You have your own life, and make your own life so you can do it. It's just asking yourself what you really want to do then go on. Don't make it complicated. Have a nice day to you!

I guess your old enough now to stand own your feet, so in my opinion i guess you should separate to lived your own apartment. If you are here in American you can call 911 co'z he was abusive to you but not it means you will forget your family co'z you seem you are rebel that way or maybe talk your father why he kept you scolded until this age. Good Luck to you.

I guess you need to have a heart to heart talk with your dad.. Let him know how you truly feel.. you know, parents aren't always right.. they should also learn how to listen to their children.. you're 25 and you are matured enough to handle yourself.. If he wants to say something to you then say it in a nice way.. there is no need to scold you in front of your wife and brother-in-law, that isn't right...

HEY CHIMRANI All the fathers are the same ,baby,but trust me they love us and will never think or suggest bad for us you dont you dare to think y u r created and to forget family .Come on man they all love you.You can do one thing when you dad is cool,go to him and talk to him and if possible hug him ,i know it will work ,JAADU KI JHAPPI always work.You will understand when you will become a father.just talk to him and dont forget hugging him.