True love brings happiness

This is my first encounter with one of your posts. In looking through other posts you have made and of course this specifically you intelligence shines through. You truly have a gift for words. I have found over the years that there is a marked difference between what we perceive as love in the beginning of a relationship and what it evolves into over time. For me 'True Love' is not that excitement we all feel when we first meet and become enraptured by each other but rather it is the realization that this one person is all and more than you thought when you first met. And with each passing day,with each passing year, you discover that very special something that has brought your hearts together. Not the passion and fire but what comes with truly knowing and loving that person. Some call it a soul mate. True love comes from knowing everything there is to know about someone and loving them for it. The passion may have subsided but when you discover that you have 'True Love' you then know true happiness.

True love is something to appreciate and enjoy, but one thing should be kept in mind. Nothing is unchangeable, esp with things that involve more than one party. To keep love lasting, we must not leave it as it is or take it for granted. Constant cultivation, and gift of humor are needed both ways. Otherwise, either internal or external factors might bring about changes. Keep in mind the goodwill reminding, and God bless you.

wowwwwwwwww its realy refreshing message got the point zandi.maybe thats why he still the one i kissed goodnight because of the strong feeling hehehe

I heard that true love will always follow you, no matter what you do in your life. So, if a person you think you are in love is not with you then he/she was not made for you. If you love wants to go out from your life, Let him/her go because if it is your true love then it would come back to you!

This is truly beautifully written and must come from a heart that knows or has known true love. There is love and there is true love. Love is beautiful and sustains us for a time. But often we want more. True love leaves you wanting for nothing other than the one you are with. Often times I have thought that true love only is allowed once in your lifetime. As time goes by and life moves on, I think maybe, just maybe we are allowed to feel that once more. the feelings that come with it are immeasuable. The emotions, the way your body shakes at just the thought of the one you love and the way yourmind never really stops thinking about that person are all signs that it is true love... The bible verse tells us what love is: 1st Corinthians 13:4-7 says "love is patient and kind, does not envy or boast nor is it arrogant or rude. It does not insist on it's own way, it is not irritable or resentful. It does not rejoice in wrong doings nor remembers or holds to be wronged but rejoices in truths. Love bears all things, believes all things,hopes all things and love Endures all things." True love is really personified in this passage and shows us that when you are in love you are patient with things that may occur with the one you love. You understand that they are individuals and that they sometimes need to knoww you will be there when they can settle in. When you are in love you find forgiveness where you might not be as forgiving with someone you just love. Being in love means there is nothing you would not do for that person, including lay down your life for them. But the feeling.............. the unbelievable, heart touching, soul holding, body reacting, mind spinning, almost crazy, want to be with them all the time feeling, not to forget the "stimulation and stirring of ones body..... THOSE feeling scream "I am In Love" to the entire world. Or at least to your heart and soul. lol Once you have it, just like you said, it does NOT just go away. It is strong and beautiful and filled with Excitement. If you feel like you are in heaven every time you see her, then my friend, YOU are in Love...

Hello my friend zandi458 Ji, Your expressions about your love are self experienced one. They are very true to their meaning. Let's enjoy true love. may god bless you and have great time.

Hi! Dear! It appears that you have written a fantastic brief on 'love' and how to preserve it. Wonderfully written, I appreciate your jargon of words. You know very well, how to play with words and make your expressions exceptionally effective. You are right, we keep looking for those things, which we do not have or we have those things, we wish that no body should take it away from us. We always long for more and more and we crave for eternal. One of the great Philospher has said - [i]"There are two tragidies in a man/woman's life - (i) To get a thing; (ii) or Not to get a thing.[/i] I wish you many more happy moments when you could visualise 'true love' in the mirror.

very true! most of the time i am thinking of what makes it true..there are lots of people when they say they find true love but in the end they regret saying it and they regret being with that person they called they found a true love with..i guess when you say its true love then it means, your not just plain happy but you are contented..you don't seek much and when you appreciate little things that your love does..true love is when, they create mistake but above all that we are willing to forgive and guide them on to how they can change and fix what was done wrong..true love is not about asking back what you given to your love one..it is when you feel pure happiness because you made them happy even without them giving back the favor that you gave them to make them happy...for me that's what true love means...

well, its very true but then its rarity to find such a feel with a person.. its the ideal condition wat i guess everone wants in life..but very few lucky people get it..I wish my love also turns this way as u have aptly described..!!!

sometimes zandi, it is inpossible to hold on to it no matter how much u love someone. it takes two to make it work.

My first love i could say took a while to develop into a true love. She became my gf but it doesnt mean that what we have is true love already its the things we do together that build a strong foundation between the two of us and then later having shared a lot with this person we realized that little by little we became deeply in love with each other. But sad to say it wasnt a happy ending for me with this girl for now I am still open to the possibility of finding the love that once was lost. hopefully soon.

true love also brings you peace. I try to make sure that every chance I can I let my true love know how grateful I am that we are together. I never take it for granted. I know that I am truly blessed.

very beautiful... it made me sigh. I've always been in love with the idea of true love. But I'm still waiting... the thing I find challenging the most is how to recognize if love is really true.

This article is too wonerful . i have true love . true love brings more and more happiness. true love is eternal and uncondtionally. it's srong and unbrekable ...gread!!! i live with my friends almost 3 years ,we love each other ,i intend to live together lifelong! i know the true love . thank you!!!

it is true that true love brings forth joy, happiness and contentment in life. it is sad, zandi, that i was not blessed enough to have found a man who will give me this state in life. i may be envious of those who are happily married but, this will not at all alleviate the condition that i am in. what i do then, it to be happily settled with my children by my side. as of now, my two boys are with me and my eldest, a daughter, is now residing in another country. it is her choice, i hope that she is happy and contented where is now. for my children, i am hoping that each one of them will find their true loves. for it is only in being with one's true love that contentment in life can be achieved.

The pertinent problem is it is very hard to find real love in these days where most people love themselves while turning back even on friendly love and affection.

Sounds great! Zandi, are you a love advisor? I can see a beautiful poem in your words and give me many inspirations and feelings, I will folow your advise to face my GF:-) As we know that, love can not be taught but can get help by our friends or other people, so in the face of the love everyone is equal and everyone make their best to persuit the beloved person, during this periord and if they have a good result, absolutely love can bring happiness while it is a bad result, the happiness would not exist and the upset can follow one's life

What a wonderful sentiment. I am not sure I agree with it all or totally, but you expressed it beautifully!!

I have my true love in my life and frankly she is a blessing for me. She supports me in my every task. She is here for me everytime as I am always there for her too. I really can't spend a day without talking to her or meeting her You are so right friend, true love indeed brings happiness

zandi458,what you said it is really right ,so most people are looking forward to and hunting for it ,including me .May everyone can find true love !be happy ,mylottings !