do you yell or scream when you're mad?

yes sometimes I do specially if that person keeps on doing what I don't want him or her to do. At first I would tell them to stop and then if they continue on my voice will be louder and if they insist, then I shout.

I try really really hard not to yell, but man do people know how to push my buttons. Recently, my hubby and I decided that any time we feel like yelling, we have to stop ourselves and lower our voices. I do not like it when I yell, or when any one else yells. I figure that in order to teach my kids not to yell, I have to do my best to set the example.

Hello gicolet! I don't scream or yell when I am mad. I am usually quiet and won't talk to the person. At first, my husband doesn't understand about being quiet. But now, he knows that when I am quiet, I am mad at him..hehehe..I am glad that he learned to adjust from me and I am trying to adjust from him.

First, its crying and not shouting which help in releiving tension or emotions. Crying freely or expressing your emotions to another person helps. Shouting or raising ones voice is common and natural when a person gets angry. But shouting and getting angry every now and then is not good. In fact getting too angry can be harmful for oneself rather than others. Sometimes one needs to be strict and use a loud tone in order to discipline someone.

To be honest,i yelled to my kid when they didn't listen to me.i don't want to hurt other's feeling too.but i lost my patience and couldn't control myself when i got mad.i always think why some people keep calm well when they met something.

i will silent and will not talk to anyone

No. I bite my finger then hit the table with my fist. Multiple times. I look pathetic.

No, I need to get into that habit. I don't always say what's on my mind. I usually get really quiet and pout. Then, I'll probably cuss under my breath and glare at people if they have the gall to look at me when it's really known of their stinkin' business!

Yes I do this and I know I shouldn't. I did it on Sunday night to someone and I felt really bad after. They talked to me after a day and they told me that it happens and to stay strong that they were there for me no matter what and how mad I got. I guess it takes alot of guts to say that to someone after you have just screamed at them for something. I did get a chance to opologize to this person and hope I never get that way again but it happens to the best of us I guess.

Yes I do at times too; screaming and yelling when mad. When my husband and me have some fights we even both scream at each other, but become passive afterwards. Yes I find it more comforting after that but like you, I felt guilty specially if my husband just being calm and passive when I did the screaming on him.

I don't get mad...I get even.

I sometimes scream when I'm mad. I feel ashamed later , esp after I screamed at my child who is frightened, not knowing what is happening. But I just can not control myself.

when one gets mad at someone, one tends tends to raise voice and shout. but this does not help the purpose. you get mad when you do not wish to agree with the person. the main thing in question is that you need to make your point clear. so here you need too keep your cool, try to handle the situation well and put your point in a different fashion. this is not easy to do but if one strats practising then one can keep his/her head stable and talk. by shoouting or starting an agrgumen nothing can be achieved. only the differences augment.

i try not to. if its towards my parents they would hit me back if i would raise voice against them. but yeah outside yes,i do. i raised voice yesterday against a cashhier in a store because she kept my money and i comeback she said to me that she did not. also she charged me over in my shopping. if she was a new employee i wouldnt say anything. but she was not new and she started arguing.

Actually, I get quieter. I have pretty good self-control, my mind actually becomes clearer when I'm angry or pent up with adrenaline...if that makes any sense. If you get too stressed or too frequently angry when you're older, it could lead to problems. But normally it is quite healthy to express yourself.

Most often I scream when I am frustrated. I do try to control myself when it is at other people, but sometimes I feel that I have kept my mouth shut for so long that I need to say something to them. Or when a response is not what it should be...and I do not know why someone is acting the way they are...I will snap...I do understand people have bad days and stuff...but I am honest about what I think and feel...and sometimes I think other people would be better off getting stuff off their chests...instead of keeping it a secret....a big festering secret....that serves no purpose but self-destruction.. My boyfriend is a good sport....but I could try to relax more... I do feel it is good to get out steam, but when you feel bad about how you make other people feel...that's where we need to find another outlet...I used to write poetry, until I lost the perfect book...

When I am mad I just keep quiet as much as possible. I don't want to talk since I know that I may say hurtful words that I might regret eventually. So I prefer to be quite and have to calm down and would only talk when I have think things over. I prefer that way. I don't want to start a fire out of a small ember. I may be a loud person in any normal circumstance but i am quiet when i am mad.

I think when I'm mad you'd see it on my face and how I talk and how I am to a person. I don't really yell or scream but I do nag at times. I can be sarcastic if I'm really really mad. But I'm patient, this only happens when I can't take things anymore and when people are big pain. I don't really tell a person I'm mad because they would already know.

I scream when I am veeeeeeeery angry. Sometimes I am just quiet.

I heard that too; a little crying is good for you every now and then. When I get mad, I've started doing the opposite, the "grown up" way of being mad at them - giving the cold shoulder and just acting really cold & emotionless towards them. That seems to upset people and I usually get an apology out of 'em.