A bestfriend may also be your worst enemy?
By agmamayo
@agmamayo (804)
Philippines
March 4, 2009 11:57pm CST
We all have what we call a bestfriend whom we can rely on,has a hand to pick you up when your down and out, and also has a shoulder to cry on in times of hardships. A bestfriend thats always there beside you sharing a laughter, a joke, some happy moments you cant really forget, and you will treasure every minute of the time you shared together. But why for some, they consider there bestfriend would turn out to be their worst enemy? I had same thoughts of this before, had hardtimes thinking, why a bestfriend could indeed be your worst enemy.
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6 responses
@thecrazyjogger (3178)
• India
6 Mar 09
yeha sometimes
if u guys have too much competition that miught b bad for u guys
so becareful n pick ur battles carefully
happy lottin and have a nice day!
@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Thats right, there are friends competing really for a single issue, like issues about a guy or something if they are girl friends and for boys a single girl. Friendships sometimes go way beyond the usual when both parties share almost everything about themselves. When competition or misunderstandings between them sparks, they blurt out all they know about each other and bringing out crazy stuffs about each other. So, I think we need not to be so open to our close friends, you can share simple ideas, thoughts or anything not pertaining about the whole you so as to avoid being backstabbed by your friend if misunderstandings will arise in the future. Thanks for responding.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
5 Mar 09
Hi,
It's your apprehension.
As b'cz you share all things(imp/unimp) with ur best friend, U apprehend that he/she may utilise those info and may use AGAINST you?
Then,I doubt on Ur wisdom on selecting Ur Best Friend!Never loose TRUST...
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
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@agmamayo (804)
• Philippines
30 Mar 09
Truly a friend can be trusted and not be trusted at all. So its better to not tell all your secrets to a friend for they can be used as a blackmail issue against you. No wonder that a friend can also be a worst enemy whenever you and your friend cannot agree with each other anymore. Being too much trusting to a friend can be more damaging, so better pick some simple information you can share to a friend and not share all about you. Thanks for your response.
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@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
31 Mar 09
Yes thats true because your bestfriend knows all your secrets and he/she may use that to blackmail you if things gone wrong in your friendship. 
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
5 Mar 09
jealousy.
i have a friend whom i would consider a stage higher than very good friends. but i dare not call her my bestfriend.
why?
simply because being a bestie would have me expecting too much of her. and i do know that she is one of those that would turn her back on you if you're doing better than her. and she loves to brag. but there again she's the only one in which i can speak to and she understands. we're on the same wavelength and we think almost the same way.
another reason why a best friend can be one's worst enemy is because she knows EVERYTHING about you. stuff that even my parents might not know. and that's scary. blackmail ALERT!!!
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@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
Hi agmamayo,
When I am a friend I show and give my all as a friend. If my friend wanted time to listen to his/her problems, I can give my whole day to that friend. I already offered some financial help to some friends. Whatever is available to me, for the sake of friendship, I give, without asking anything back.
However, when a friend did smoething wrong to me- I mean-very wrong...Then better delete me on their friends's list. I've been good for the sake of friendship, I don't expect friends to backstab me or tell something untrue about me. If that is the attitude displayed by a person, then he or she is not worth my friendship at all.
One of my bestfriends told me that if I am a friend, I am soooooooo good! But if somebody I trusted abused my friendship, that person will become my enemy. ANd when I'm bad, I'm better!
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@wolfaaron (179)
• United States
5 Mar 09
I have only heard of that happening because of jealousy
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