I need space! / myLot

Philippines

March 5, 2009 1:12am CST

How can you ask your love to have space? Give you some time to think? Makes everything clear. And how can you ask that question without hurting the feelings of your partner? Give me some idea that can I use.:'(

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3 responses

rsa101

@rsa101 (38166)

• Philippines

5 Mar 09

That is really hard for the other party to digest. I think the best way is to tell her that straight and as honest as you can. I think if you tell her that and show to her that you mean what you say then she'll get the idea of it. Of course it would hurt it and there's no other way that you can say it without hurting her. Just say it nicely and clearly.

Krisneil

@Krisneil (577)

• Philippines

5 Mar 09

Thank you, But it is easy to say but very difficult to do. Hehe by the way Ill accept your comment,, thank you vey much..

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thanks

rsa101

@rsa101 (38166)

• Philippines

5 Mar 09

That is true but I think being honest is what is important about how you deal with it.

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vivian642008

@vivian642008 (71)

• China

5 Mar 09

yes, you should keep some your own space with your girlfriend. i think if you marrige sometime, you need your space also. i think you can tell her directly. maybe she like you to do that. maybe she want to some own space. everyone wil be boring if you stay together all day round. so tell her, maybe she want to say the same question to you.

Krisneil

@Krisneil (577)

• Philippines

5 Mar 09

Ok thank you for your response..

forslahiri

@forslahiri (1042)

• India

5 Mar 09

Hi, Sorry, for the counter question-'do u give space or encroach often?' U cannot'walk the talk',if u donot follow yourself. If U follow,talkwith her in suitable moment-- the PRINCIPLE U follow & expect all others to follow. Treat her as Intelligent Partner,Respect her wisdom..she will understand Ur massage. =lahiri,Kolkata,India.