All the pain is worth it..
By eneria
@eneria (118)
Philippines
March 6, 2009 3:45am CST
Is it worth it to give up the one you love who is already committed?
the past 6 months seems to be difficult for me.. as everything comes around, i am wondering., why am i doing all of this? why do i have to suffer having a man which is not really committed to me., i know i really love him,, but i have to sacrifice., i have to accept the fact that he will never be mine..
having a relationship with people whom you know that is already committed is very painful, you cannot expect., you cannot demand..
we broke up last week, and i promised not to bug him again..
i know it's kinda hard but i believe that i can let him go and move on with my own life.. :)
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2 responses
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I have found this quote when I'm searching in the net and I think its really said a lot.. Here it is
"Moving on is simple, it's what you leave behind that makes it so difficult"
So, what do you think?? Well, I agree in this quote.. We keep on saying that its hard to move on especially if you really love that person.. But the truth is its not on moving that makes it difficult but through the memories that we have on that person.. We are stock to that memories and we don't want to let it go.. Still hoping that someday everything will be fine and everything will be back to normal..
The only chances that you can do to really move on is not to forget him but to letting go the memories and hopes that you have in your heart. If you learn how to let go of it then surely you can move on.. Stop holding and stocking your life in the past because this might be the cause of so much pain..
@eneria (118)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
yeah., am hoping that someday everything will be fine .. with my own life., with his own family.
i decided to let him go because i know that is the right way to make things right... i cannot stay in a relationship wherein i know someone will be miserable..
i cannot stay with someone who doesn't even realize my worth..
this will serve as a lesson for me on how to be strong and how to manage things and changing wrong memories in a right one. :)
@dlj817 (46)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
if you really love the person, you must learn to let go..It's easier said than done but once you let go of him, you will be relieved. Realize your worth. If he's committed to someone else and is not willing to fight for your love, he's not worth it..
