Have you experienced the same thing?
By ashwlzhq
@ashwlzhq (47)
China
March 6, 2009 5:40am CST
Just several days ago i bought a laptop that i had been longing for.Almost every day i spend several hours in front of it. I have learnt a lot through the internet.But just yesterday one of my friends called me to borrow it for one and half months. I found i was reluctant to leave my computer.It is a need to me.But my friend needs it very much,too.And he is one of my best friends.I think i'm embressed to refuse him. So do you think i have to lend it to him? Do you have run across the same thing? If so what will you do? Please give me your ideas. Thanks a lot!!!
3 responses
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
surely, there is a very important reason why you bought that laptop. just tell your friend that you really need the laptop for whatever reason you bought it and apologize that you can't lend it to him.
@ashwlzhq (47)
• China
6 Mar 09
It's a good idea.But he never gave me the chance.Maybe he trusts me very much and he came to me and borrowed it directly.Now that we are the best friends, i don't want to see his disappointment. Finally i lended it.Thanks for your idea all the same! Best wishes!
@ashwlzhq (47)
• China
6 Mar 09
In fact i have hestated for a long time before i lended it.But he said he had no time to buy one.He uses it to go entrepreneurial. The place he lives in is near to me, so he decides ask me for help.I don't want him to regret because of my laptop.
Happy mylotting!Best wishes!
@jiahai (19)
• China
6 Mar 09
it's also happen to me!but my friend did not borrow for that a long time.so i always borrow to him.and his one of my best friends.he can give it back to me on time.now,he have a laptop ,too.when i left my laptop in some place,i always borrowed one from him.and he was glad to help me.
@ashwlzhq (47)
• China
6 Mar 09
Thanks for sharing your experience.I have lend it to him.I think, after all,friendship is most important.So i will learn to adapt it when there's on competer gradully and await my laptop's return. Supporting is mutual,so some day we will need their help.Best wishes to you and your good friends!!!
