am i just jealous or am i already inlove?
By tina08
@tina08 (4)
Philippines
March 6, 2009 8:00am CST
I don't know why, but it hurts me every time he talks about his best friends... I admit that I'm quite jealous, but I can't tell him cause I know that I don't have any rights. Every time I try to be more closer to him I feel that there is a wall around him. And every time were having fun that if someone sees us may think that were so close, I wake up and realize that were just friends and cannot be more than that(for him)... now, I don't know what to feel or what to do..
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5 responses
@Archie0 (5652)
•
6 Mar 09
Well i must say you are falling for him, i mean something called as you are in love with him. but there is some barrier in between you and your friend where you think that it wont be a good idea to fall for him. but if you going to keep your feeling just deep inside like this then i think you might be in trouble.
well do you feel any gestures from your friends side also? does he also feels like you do? if yes then i think either of you should step forward faster
@asmurthy (2461)
• India
6 Mar 09
yes you are jealous of his friends and then you are in love with him. it will take some time for him to understand your. you have to wait till then. any way welcome to mylot. Be active and enjoy mylotting. go through the guidelines. Best of luck/
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I think you got a crush with your friend.
You knew, situation like this can sometimes
break a friendship. When you fell in love with your
friend, everything will change forever. Things will
never be the same again.You knew it.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
8 Mar 09
Hi,
Have patience...observe Him some more time..let Ur Friendship Gells better.
He may also Test U by saying about His Best Friends...who knows?
But in future,when U tell about Ur Best Friend/incidences which u remember for Long,tell about HIM.Keep in Touch with Him...give Ur valuable feddback to Him.
He will surrender,if he also Loves U as dearly U Love Him.wait & watch!
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@jamahagirl (6)
• United States
7 Mar 09
My husband and I began as friends when we were in high school. We lost touch when he graduated and went on to college. There is two years difference in our ages so I was still in high school. I always thought that he could be someone I could have a relationship with but I was already involved with someone else. Once I went off to college, we got back in contact with each other. I was fine at first when he would talk about his female friends but the more we hung out and the closer we got, the more jealous I got. This went as far as me avoiding him because I didn't want to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend at the time. After a failed marriage, I finally realized that I needed to take the risk and tell my friend how I felt. I have never regretted it. We will be married 9 years in April and have two awesome boys. If it is how you feel, tell him.
