Does she actually want me?
By sambarwell
@sambarwell (173)
March 6, 2009 2:01pm CST
I have been with my girlfriend for a little while. She says she loves me and everything. But she seams to act different around her friends, now I have told her about that.
But she now seams to not ever want me around, and when I call her she has an attitude on the phone. I called her today as I was passing her house on my way home, but she was too busy to even see me.
The only time I feel she actually wants me around is when we're together and her friends aren't around or call her.
Why could she be doing this?
3 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
24 Mar 09
[i]Hi sam,
Im sorry to hear about that but I think it's not fair...I don't like to think that she is just using you, well, I hope not.
Or maybe she is just really very busy...Anyway, try to observe and if you really feel about this, I guess you have to be honest to ask her why she is like that![/i]
@sambarwell (173)
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25 Mar 09
Hopefully she is not. Since this post I have tried to reason with her, which caused her offering to split up. She then decided to break up for a week. But she then later e-mailed me, as my facebook said 'why does it end like this?', so possibly she was worried it would be the end forever. The email she sent, was apologising for being a b*t*h, saying she wants me and says I was silly about something she did.
@alyciassecret (542)
• United States
6 Mar 09
I don't think she truly loves you. She's probably embarrassed on how she is when you're around and just try to ignore you to make her look like she's not really that into you. She might be though, but scared, confused and ashamed. I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing, I think this is her issue. She's not that mature.
@sambarwell (173)
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8 Mar 09
Yes, the maturity bit. I think you've got that right. Quite clever that is, and you don't even know her. Cheers.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
6 Mar 09
I think that is pretty rude of your GF to be treating you that way. I do believe in not mixing friends with relationship though, but it's rude that your GF doesn't want to even come out for a sec. to see you. You should talk to her about it and see what is up and tell her that it is offending. Best wishes.
@sambarwell (173)
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6 Mar 09
Cheers. At least it's not me being clingy then, altho once a week for a couple of hours is proberbly not cingly. Yea I will just tell her everything I think. Thanks Lore2009.
