Rihanna Needs Professional Help!!!

I can't agree with you more. Number one, how do we know Chris Brown hasn't abused her previously, but it just didn't "show" up before, at least not to the extent of the injuries she recently suffered but being repeatedly hit by Brown, and even heard he bit her left ear while in the car that night. The problem as I see it, and have no idea of Rihanna's background, but who knows? She may (or may not) have come from a history of abuse in her background..maybe her parents? Some women too, seem to be drawn to abusive relationships with the idea that they can change their man. She's a total fool for reconciling with Brown since who knows? The next time she's abused by him, she might not be so "lucky"---I understand from the news media that there exists a worse picture of her that really shows the real extent of her injuries but hasn't been released yet.

I've been in an abusive relationship. I had left him when he had physically abused me for the second time, but sad to say I went back to him. I had loved him too much and he had said that he would change. But he never changed. He said he was sorry and that he would never hit me again. A couple of months later he hit me again and thats when I had enough courage to leave and never go back. Its been 3 years since I've been gone and I'm not going back ever. So I know what Rihanna is thinking and going through. She loves him too much, but he doesn't love her because love doesn't hurt. And she feel for his apology and felt sorry for him just like I had did. But I promise you he will hit her again. They both need professional help. She need to move on with her life without him in it. Some sources are saying that they are married, but not legally married(like Tracey and Eddie Murphy). Rihanna is a beautiful young lady and she can get anyone she wants, so I'm hoping that she is not thinking that Chris is the only one that wants her.

Its nice seeing you. I so agree with you on this subject. Actually I think he needs to be beat like what he did. Who the heck does he think he is. What he did is horrible and he needs to have some big trouble from it. She needs to wake up, is this what she wants, is this how she wants to live. If she does stay with him, the next time (and there will be a next time)might be fatal. I have had a few experiences with guys that thought they were going to hit me, I don't think so, I hit back, I am no mans punching bag. I always taught my son not to be hitting girls and I have told his girlfriends and now his wife, that if he ever thought he was going to hit them, that I expected them to press charges and throw him in jail. Abuse like that should not be tolerated by anyone.

I think so too after the way he beat the devil out of her. I would never let him near me again. That man has problems and he also need professional help. Did you hear the them describe how he beat her repeatedly? No way not me I am not the one.

It is common for abused men or women to return to their abuser because they feel it is their fault. Domestic abuse comes to light with the Police/authorities roughly after the 26th event or there abouts according to research, so chances are something similar but not as severe has already happened. Her face was awful and there have been pics in the paper of her blood inside his car. MrsL x x

This is so common among abused women. Most of them go back to the abusive partner even after they get the living crap beat out of them. Some do it out of mistaken love, others suffer from very low self-esteem and insecurity that they will have no one else in their life. The sad part here is that they almost never listen to good advice from people close to them. It is unfortunate that someone like Rihanna, who seemed to be a strong, independent, modern woman, should be drawn into this kind of trap. She definitely should seek professional help!

I don't understand why she went back to him either. I bet a bunch of her woman fans are going to stop liking her because she did that. As far as I am concerned with any person, I may love you but if you hit me we are done. There is no second chance it my opinion, unless of course the person was really high at the time and get help from an organized program like AA or NA. Then I might consider taking them back ;note that I said might;. No guarantees!

well she sure needs something. men that hit their wives/girlfriends once are definitely bound to do it again. she needs something to give her the self confidence to move on.

Hi Rozie dear! How are you? I completely agree with you that she needs someone to make her realize her true worth and that no one has the right to hurt anyone that way. Hopefully there are some people close to her who would advise her properly and hopefully she would listen. With her experience, I do hope that many will learn from that and hopefully those who are still in the same situation would come to their senses and have the courage and strength to walk away from an abusive relationship. Take care and have a great day! lovelots..faith

Hi, Rozie37. And like all others I have been through mental and verbal abuse, some physical as well. I have never gotten hit or beaten down. But, I have went back to my husband. Right now, I am praying that God will show me the way if he wants us to be together. Right now, my husband is not feeling too well. He had surgery on his arm. So, as his wife, I am being there for him. But, if he ever had to beat me like Chris Brown beat Rihanna, then I know that it is time for me to go! That is when he can kill me and that is no love. I can sympathiize with Rihanna. I know how hard it is to leave someone thast has abused you in any way. My husband has told me during our marriage that I have abused him. I disageee... I believe that he is the one that has done most of the damage, making many threats that were verbally done. So, with Rihanna, I feel sorry for her. I really do. Chris bruised her all up. That is not a forgiving thing that I could do. The only reason why Chris wanted to get back with her, is because he knew that his fame and career was in Rihanna's hands. He did not want it to go to waste. So, that prevented her from testifying against him in court. He was let off that easily. It could never have been me. He would have went straight to prison, no celebrity or not. What he did was wrong, and if Rihanna grabbed his phone, that still gives him no reason to do what he did. I think that Chris has mental problems. And there are stories that he has been trying to cheat on Rihanna many times. I really don't think that he loves her at all! And I heard, that she was pregnant with his child, that may could be another reason why she chooses to hold onto Chris. This is very sad. And I admit that they are sending the wrong message to many young people.. Plus old too.

I love hat you said "Just because you think you have a reason to beat on someone, that does not give you the right to do it". You are right on that! Simple but clear! I remember before when I was so mad at my boyfriend I wanted to slap him so hard but then I controlled myself because though I am so mad at him, still wouldn't do me any good to hurt him. I wish people would learn to have self control especially when it comes to their anger.

I know that they have reconciled, just goes to show that love is blind. And Rihanna will realize that Chris isn't the one for her,and when she does it will be too late for her. I don't care about Chris brown, his reputation just dropped in front of all his woman fans.And i got more pissed that he isn't taking this situation seriously.

i am too was surprised why she got back to chris after what he had done to here. don't she feel threatened that this man may in another time hurt her again if not more badly. cause i feel that once has done it once the chance of this act being repeated is so high. that most people who do this kind of thing to women have some emotional and psychological problem and there is no way that they can stop this from happening. and so i think that the best to stop this is to get out of the relationship as soon as possible. no women deserved to be beaten and hurt by their man physically or even emotionally and mentally.

You know what? I starated a discussion on abuse and women staying in it. You should try to look it up. I don't understand it either. My sister has done that, and her excuse is she likes being treated bad. I mean I don't believe in this kind of behavior I agree with you 100%!

I am very surprised they reconciled so soon - she's a beautiful women and can have anyone she wants, but she chooses to stay with this idiot - it's going to happen again for sure unless they both get serious counseling. I wished she just stepped away from it all and took the time to heal and sort herself out FIRST before even thinking about reconciling or seeing him again. Would jail time do him some good? who knows, he needs counseling, much more than just anger management I say.

i understand where you are coming from.. my husband and i read the report this mornign and i was so shoked on how bad he beat her. i think he deserves to lose everything he has got after this. i totally lost respect for him. i think girls are quick to stay because we dont want to look for "love" all over again and i think sometimes we think "oh it was just a one time thing" or maybe that we can make a difference...but most times it is not that way.

Did rihanna actually give Herpes? Lol I guess this happen because.... hmm I dont know. People fight people forgive some people just let it stay a grudge. I dont know what the world has gone to. Maybe he was drunk thats why he beat her, or maybe it was that car accident lol, his car looked fine from the reports.