What will you do if a shopkeeper accidently returns excess money?

@sanuanu (11235)
India
March 6, 2009 9:00pm CST
Well, I would like to share my experience with you. It was when I was a child. My teacher used to tell me that honesty is the best policy. One day, my mom asked me to buy oil. I went to the shop and asked 2 litres of it. It costed Rs 36, I gave him Rs 50 and he returned me Rs.84 instead of Rs 14. "Honest is the best policy!". I told him that he should only return Rs 14. I thought he would praise me but instead he shouted at me saying, "Can't you say how much oil you are taking?". I was shocked. Well, funny thing is that the next he made the same mistake and this time, I took the money with me and he was as happy as he was! What would you do if this happens to you?
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
7 Mar 09
Since he was rude I would have done the same thing that you did. I once received an extra 100 dollar bill when cashing my grandmother's social security check at the drive through window of my bank. I returned the extra bill to the girl at the window and she asked me why I had sent it back. I told her that she had given me too much money. I thought she was going to cry while she thanked me! She said that any shortages came out of her pay and that that amount would have also gotten her fired. The bills were new and had been stuck together so I'm glad I was honest that day.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
9 Mar 09
Because she was an employee, the girl must be thanking you more than 100 times. You did an splendid job. I may not be returning that money to her. The person in that shop was not an employee but a shop owner. may be that was why he was rude on me. Later on he could have realized it but since he didn't appologize, I didn't do any favour to him!
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I would return it the second time too just because it is the tright thing to do. Two wrongs don't make a right. Just because he was rude, it wouldn' tmake it right to keep the extra the next time. I would return it with a smile on my face, and I think that my smile would say more than any words could.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
10 Mar 09
But don't you think that he was commiting a mistake and he should be punished for that! Think about it, take an example, if a person slaps his wife with no reason, then shouldn't that person be penalized by giving a punishment. When the lady would go out then the man would realized his mistake. So, I think I punished that guy just because he punished me for a good work!
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
11 Mar 09
He made a mistake, he did not commit a crime. I still say that two wrongs don't make a right and no matter how rude he was, I would not keep the extra money that he gave me. In the case of a wife beater, that is a crime, not just a mistake, and he should face the consequences.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Mar 09
I would stop this fight here because I think your and mine way of thinking is different. I was beaten by a stick from my teacher for just not bringing a book of his choice in his class. That wasn't a crime but a mistake!
@Leykon (579)
• Canada
7 Mar 09
It is always best to be honest,I would give back the money
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@Leykon (579)
• Canada
12 Mar 09
Yes this has happened to me more then once,I remember the one time in perticular it was in a small grocery store.I had 4 little children and not much money,My hubby had been laid of from his job. I had got some of the things that were on sale and gave her a ten dollar bill.the groceries were under 6 dollars.She thought I had gave her a 20 and gave me the change,My first thought was what a break and I walked out of the sore.but I just felt a terrible guilt and went back in and told her what had happened and that I was sorry for what I had done.She started to cry and thanked me as she said it would have been taken out of her pay and she could hardly make ends meet now. I went out of the store yes I was broker then before but I felt good and I knew that I had done the right thing and we would make it through the rough times
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
13 Mar 09
You did the right thing but I am really glad that it was not the same response you get from the storekeeper. May be because she was an employee and in my case it was an owner. But you should be proud of yourself that you did make a day for a person in this world.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Mar 09
It would so nice of you. Had this happened to you in your life, I mean got more change than usual or you left some money on that counter ? did that happen with you because it has happened to me many times.
• India
7 Mar 09
Yes you are right honesty is the best policy but for some people, not for people like ur incidence. I always show honesty by pay back extra money when shopkeeper make mistake but i never found person like you specified, in my life. You have done right thing second time. But Our nature of honesty we should not left behind. So be Honest your honesty can make someone happy and that will be gr8 reward for you.Have a nice day.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
11 Mar 09
He he he. I was also very surprised when he shouted at me. Well, I told my mum about the situation and she was yelling at me that what was the need to me becoming "King Harishchandra"? I could have easily taken the money and come back to home. Which was exactly I did the second time.
@kissieme (777)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
hello sanuanu, I had experienced the same thing though the store keeper didn't shout at me but instead was so embarrassed that he just accepted the excess and kept quiet. hahaha I always count the changes before I go out of a store just in case this thing ahppen again. And it's true, honesty is the best policy... If I had experienced the same yelling from the storekeeper, and if it happened again, I'll just leave the excess coins on the counter and ran away hahaha...so that I won't get yelled again *laughs*
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Mar 09
*laugh* *laugh* *burst in laugh*. That was a nice idea. Great. You deserve a best response here and you are getting one from me. Gosh, next time I will do the same action. People might run after me thinking that I am a theif! LOL
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
13 Mar 09
Ha ha ha.. I would love to see them running after me for returning the money I left on the corner,will they?
@kissieme (777)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thank you... *blush* hahaha... they might not think that since you're leaving money on the counter hee hee... they would just look puzzled why you left that there *laugh*
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• India
21 Mar 09
Ofcourse, I will return the excess money that shopkeeper gives. What is the need or that. What will be lost if we are honest.I have such an incident and have prove my honesty.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Mar 09
Even if the shopkeeper would shout at you again! Unless and until that keeper was my friend, I would never accept his shout at me.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
23 Mar 09
Well anytime I am given back too much $$ when I buy something if I catch it right away I will say something. There have been times I have not caught it until later though as well. But personally the Best thing to do in this case is Be Honest and let them know they made a mistake. Usually it is to your advantage as well. This was not your fault you got yelled at. The shopkeeper apparently did not know how to count.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
24 Mar 09
May be you are right, the shopkeeper didn't know how to count but what he did was taught me a wrong lesson which was with me for long long time. I was always finding a chance when I can get more money from the shopkeeper. Well, later when the same thing happened with me in my shop, my thinking has been changed and now I return the excess change what I get from them!
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
7 Mar 09
Hi sanuanu, I agree with your teacher that honesty is the best policy. I think the shop salesman was the uncommon type of person that looked rather weird in his response when you told him that he had given back the change more than what he should give you. I think the shop salesman didn’t like to take the trouble to calculate again the amount of money he should pay back to you. He preferred not to do the extra work for he was only an employee and he didn’t lose anything if you never gave back the cash to him. So he was always happy with his simple work but not the extra work. The disadvantage was that he had taught you an incorrect lesson. I hope you are still an honor guy whenever come across any nice people. Happy posting and take care.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
9 Mar 09
No, he was no employee but he was the owner. That wasn't a big shop at all. Huh! I am not as honest as you think. Most of the time I would give the money back if it is not big. but if it is big, hmmm, who knows I can take money in pocket and pretend that nothing has happened. Just kidding. let's hope that these things don't happen in my life otherwise it would be difficult for me as I don't want to loose dignity!
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
9 Mar 09
Then I think he is mostly a bad temper man and would easily get irritated to do extra work by taking back the money, and would feel much happy if you didn’t disturb him and regardless of the money lost. Yeah, it’s not worth to lose our dignity and feel uneasy all the time as well, just because to take the money wrongfully.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
10 Mar 09
Sometimes in future, it was uneasy for me to count the change I get it from the shopkeeper. That incident gave a deep mark in my mind (I was only 8 years old then!). I was afraid that if I return the excess money, the shopkeeper would again will shout at me. Later, I started attending my father's shop and then I understood the meaning of money and was really amazed how a person can shout at one who is doing a favour to you!
@nee_raks (205)
• India
22 Mar 09
well i would still follow your teachers saying that honesty is the best policy.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Mar 09
Now, I do follow them because I have now understood the value of honesty for sure my friend.
@vicky30 (4766)
• India
7 Mar 09
Hello sanuany,Your story really makes me laugh.I think the shop keeper doesn't know calculation.He will bring the shop to a big loss.If the shopkeeper returned to me excess.i will tell him the mistake and give him the remaining amount back.I too know Honesty is the best policy.
@vicky30 (4766)
• India
12 Mar 09
If i make money by unfair means it won't be right.I will return the money to the shopkeeper.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
13 Mar 09
If the money is small then I would definitely but if it is in around a million or something then I would proabably not! LOL
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
11 Mar 09
Even if you are in need of money, what will you do? Return or retain! That would a question to be answered! Alas! this discussion is already at mylot, so, I can't ask but I can ask it from you, right?
@dropofrain (1167)
• India
24 Mar 09
For me this depends from person to person and the sales man to sales man. If the shop is a genuine one then I would definately return the money but if it is a real expensive store then I would never return the money back. In the large store these days, they price the items very high and thus I think we can fraud a bit with them. Moreover it is their mistake not ours.. LOL!!!!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
25 Mar 09
Exactly and the most interesting thing was that the person was the shop owner!
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
22 Mar 09
This has happen to me a few times. When it has happen I don't say anyhting and leave! I know that is not a nice thing to do! I look at it as this; I have extra money to spend! If the cashier didn't caught the mistake why point it out! It isn't my fault! So it is my gain, their loss!
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Mar 09
May be you are right. I used to think that in my life too until I made the same mistake and the person in front of me returned the money. Then my thinking got chaged.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
7 Mar 09
Well It happens here in our country sometimes people are very tensed and they may just shout for nothing. Actually it is a senseless thing to say but it happen sometimes. Don't take it till your heart. You must have eared from one ear and now you have to remove it from other ear. That's a simple policy. Even simple than "Honesty is the best Policy" in some cases. Have a nice life ahead. Bye
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 Mar 09
Whatever he said gave me a deep mark inside my mind. It took a while to get that mark out from my mind. It got removed when one shopkeeper(different) returned me change when I was leaving the shop without taking the change back from him. I really admired that guy and now I am the same honest guy.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
12 Mar 09
Don't worry about that. Forget it. Bye
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• Canada
22 Mar 09
Take it. Take the money especially since he was rude about it. I have no problem keeping excess money from a cashier. And no problem whatsoever taking excess change from a cashier at a big store
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
24 Mar 09
I took and took with pleasure my friend. I was started thinking that why don't all shopkeepers do the same and give me more change than actual! LOL
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
21 Mar 09
Well, my parents and teachers taught me that honesty is the best policy. Sometimes I couldn't sleep when I make mistakes or did dishonest. When I was child, I used to buy eggs. My egg tray contains 12 egg spaces and I used to ask for 10 eggs and the shopkeeper used to give 12 eggs in the egg tray instead of 10 eggs and used to take 10 eggs price. I think it is a mistake he used to do. This had happened couple of times and I used to be happy that I am getting two more eggs free. After sometime, I began to feel real guilty and didn't know what to do. I was afraid to say to the shopkeeper that the egg tray had 12 eggs and I have been getting 2 eggs free. I stopped bringing egg tray thereafter. I think if I had been honest in the first place, I would have never felt guilty in the later part of my life.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Mar 09
I think I have done it many times but never felt guilty about it. Unless and until I am doing it with the shopkeeper on a daily basis, it is excused. Once I returned money and then got yelled may be you could have been yelled too! So, don't worry about the past but try to be honest in your future.
@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
My condition is always this: if the shopkeeper is cordial, then I give the money back. If he isn't, well, thanks for his money. He is only getting what he deserves.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
21 Mar 09
Yeap, thank you for the change, I would not count it because I have a faith in you and you won't give less money to me! And that guy would be proud that he earned a great reputation!
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
Well, I will return the excess change the seller gave me. I haven't experienced that when I return the excess money, they would shout at me but instead they smile and thank me for giving back the money. Your experience is weird as well as the man you are refering.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
13 Mar 09
I was really expecting it from him. I think I don't remember the feeling I had when he was shouting at me but afterwards I was happy that I followed my teacher but when I told this in my family and friends, all yelled at me and said that I should not have returned money to that shameless shopkeeper. May be that intimidated me to do such mistake!
@srganesh (6340)
• India
19 Mar 09
It happens to me many times and I have always been honest to return the excess money and been thanked in return.But fr you,I think you acted right the second time.Because a mistake once shall be corrected and not repeatedly.And the man deserves it as he frowned on you,the first time.But try to change the shop,because you need not lose your honesty again.Cheers!
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
21 Mar 09
Indeed. I am proud of and I think it gave him a good lesson because then onwards he didn't do anything like that. May be my act has awaken his mind and he is now more cautious on returning change!
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• India
13 Mar 09
Hi... I too agree that "Honesty is Best Policy". I also faced the similar situation once. I went to the shop early in the morning to buy toothpaste. Its cost is Rs. 20. I gave the shopkeeper Rs. 50. Instead of giving me Rs. 30, he gave me Rs. 80. I asked him how much he returned me. He told that he gave me the correct amount as he thought i gave him Rs. 100. Then I told that i gave him Rs. 50 only and gave the extra amount back to him. He thanked me and he trusts me a lot from then. He sometimes gives me some items on credit also when i don't have sufficient money with me as i stay in hostel.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
16 Mar 09
That is good. You won a good relationship with the shopkeeper. He must have thanked you and he did. This the way people earn respect and honour from others. Like in my case, the shopkeeper earned disrespect and honour from me!
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
I would certainly return it to him cause if i don't then probably i will be bothered by my conscience knowing i became dishonest..after all honesty is the best policy...
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
22 Mar 09
I hope that you keep your honesty with you as time passes because there are very few people here in this world with such honesty! Cheers! and all the best in mylot.