My friend passed away yesterday
By Katlady2
@Katlady2 (9904)
United States
March 6, 2009 10:48pm CST
I just wanted to thank everyone that replied to my post about my dear friend that had lung cancer. I'm sorry I haven't replied to you all. But it's been a really tough week so I haven't been all that "with it" lately. My friend, Bonnie, passed away at 1:30 am Thursday morning. I didn't find out until around 6:30 am when one of my other friends called and told my husband. It ended up triggering some really bad stomach problems with me all day yesterday and I almost ended up in the hospital because of it. Anyway, I guess Bonnie passed away peacefully in her sleep with her family by her side. My friend that had called me had told me that right after she was diagnosed, Bonnie told everyone that she would be leaving exactly two weeks from that day....and that's exactly what she did. It's pretty painful to think about her being gone, but at least she is now in the arms of our Lord where she's no longer in ill health or pain. Thank you all for being again so supportive and kind. You have no idea how much you are appreciated and loved. Sending lots of love and hugs to everyone......Carryl
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18 responses
@Remembering1996 (2219)
• United States
7 Mar 09
So sorry to hear about your friend passing away. It's never easy to lose the ones we love. My heart and prayers go out to you and her family may god comfort you all in this time of need. She is no longer suffering and is home w/ god where she will be cared for and love by him. I know some get angry at god for takeing a loved one but he know's what's best and he will care for her forever the way no one here ever probably could. She will always be with you in spirit and will never leave your side. May god comfort you in this time of loss.
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@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
7 Mar 09
Yes Carryl I do know how much everyone here means. I feel the same way.
It is always hard for those left behind and I am truly sorry to hear this sad news.
Although there is really nothing I have to offer to ease your pain, Please look after yourself I need you on my friends list. Try to enjoy your weekend. Take Care.
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@beachstarz (1092)
• United States
7 Mar 09
Katlady, I haven't read the posts that you had on here earlier , but I am very sorry to hear about your friend . It is very sad when a good friend passes .
But I think it is even sader to watch those we care about suffer , and there is nothing we can do to ease their pain . My dad and favorite aunt had lung cancer, so I can imagine what the family and friends are going through.
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
7 Mar 09
Hi Carryl,
I'm so very sorry to hear about Bonnie's passing. There's nothing more I can say, as I believe this says it all. My heart goes out to you, and to her family. Please make sure you take care of yourself though, as it concerns me to hear about your health, as mentioned here.
Love, and Big Hugs
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
7 Mar 09
I remember your original discussion. Condolences to you. I am sorry you have lost your dear friend. As you say her pain and suffering is gone now and she is in a far better place and at peace.
As I mentioned in your original discussion I too lost a family member that was dear to me late last year due to cancer and I can relate to the feelings of disbelief, it's hard to get your head around the fact that she is gone.
You can still talk to her I'm sure she will hear you.
Take care of yourself. Lots of love to you...
@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
8 Mar 09
Yes, I remember you saying that. I'm sorry for your loss as well hon. I'm slowly reconciling myself to the fact that she's gone, but it's still hard. Time and prayer....that's what we both need I guess to ease the pain at least somewhat. Hugs to you sweetie.
@cyberken16 (90)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
it's okay, we understand please accept our condolence. having a friend "a really good friend" like him is really hard to forget.
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
7 Mar 09
Friends to whom you have an earlier bond of love and affection create a sudden void when they leave you for the heavenly abode.The bereavement could only be experienced rather than put into words.
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@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
7 Mar 09
Hi Carryl. I've been thinking about you and wondering where you disappeared to. I'm truly sorry to hear about your friend, but at least she is no longer in pain. You take care of yourself, I don't like to hear that you weren't feeling well yourself.
(((((hugs))))))
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@Katlady2 (9904)
• United States
8 Mar 09
Thank you hon. It's been one of "those" weeks. I'm doing a lot better now, at least physically. It still hasn't hit me full force about Bonnie yet, but I think that's because I haven't really let it because of other stuff going on. Now that I'm finally able to relax a bit I'll let it all out I'm sure. Thanks for being such a wonderful friend hon. You are so very much appreciated. Hugs!
@olivebranch56 (910)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Carryl, I am sorry for your loss, but it does sound like she knew Jesus as her savior thank God. It also sounds like maybe God had shown her some things, like when she would come to see Him, how wonderful it must be to have that knowledge, and to know that she didn't have to suffer long drawn out pain like so man with cancer do. I know you will miss her, but you also have the reassurance you will meet again, I wish all had that peace within. Blessings Marilyn
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
7 Mar 09
i am very sorry for the loss of your dear friend. it is never easy to lose someone you love and shared things with. i hope you find comfort in your remaining friends and family and that they can see you through this tough and sad time.
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@nut_nut (251)
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8 Mar 09
i lost my auntie in november to cancer. in her heart and lungs from asbestos she lasted less then a year. although my mum just stopped taking her cancer meds after 5 years she has the all clear. which is partly a reason im running race for life in july to raise money for people with cancer.
this is my link http://www.raceforlifesponsorme.org/angebayliss
if it comes up with justgiving search ange bayliss.
things will get easier :) much love
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@Chevee (5905)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I am sorry to hear your friend has passed, you and her family have my deepest sympathy. I wish there were words that could make you feel better about this, but all we can do is just pray, your friend is not in any pain anymore.
Take time to get over this and take care of yourself, you getting ill is only going to make things harder for you. Take care. You are in my prayers.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I'm so sorry about the loss of your friend Carryl. It is a horrible disease, I've lost both of mt parents from it. At least Bonnie is in a better place, no doubt watching over all those she held dear.
I hope and pray that as the restraints are removed from bio and stem cell research that great stides will occur in this and all catastrophic diseases.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I am so sorry your friend passed away. May she rest in peace. It's so difficult to lose a friend and try to understand why. She was taken away and as you mention, placed in the arms of the Lord.
I lost a very dear friend last November. She hadn't been sick and simply went to lay down and take a nap and never woke up. I still think of her everyday and miss her terribly. She didn't live close to me but we kept in close touch and I visited her many times over the last 12 years. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to know this friend and be a part of her life.
Take care of yourself,
carolbee
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@Darkwing (21583)
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7 Mar 09
Oh, how sad! At least though, she only had two weeks to think about it, rather than the six months mental torture she could have had. That must be the worst thing ever... knowing you have to leave, but not knowing when.
My sincere condolences to you, my friend, and of course, to Bonnie's family. May she rest in peace after her pain-free journey to the Otherworld.
Brightest Blessings to you my friend... I hope you're feeling just a little better physically now, and continue healthily through your life. xx
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@Nan110 (469)
• United States
7 Mar 09
I'm truely sorry to hear she passed away. She isn't suffering anymore and she is watching her family and friends from above. She wants you to be happy and move on in your life. I know it'll be hard for awhile. She will always be with you in your heart. (((((HUGS)))) God Bless!!!!
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
7 Mar 09
May God Bless Her Heart And Yours!! You are right Kat, she is in a much better place and at peace. It is hard to lose a friend. I know because my mom had a few friends who've passed on in the past 5 years or so and it's been hard on all of us because we were all so close. But try to understand that we all have a time in which we're to go "Home" and it's in God's plan and we're all going to meet up again some day. Hugs sweeetie!
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