Teen-Age Pregnancy

Hi juliehvr, I can't imagine anyone in their 8 month doing cheerleading ! How it happend is in the past. there is no use worrying over the past. What she did was make a wrong decision . What matters is how she's going to handle it . Don't be concerned with what she did or what you could have done . Try to sit down and talk to her . Remember this is your daughter . She needs help and understanding. She probably won't have help from the boy , so she really needs to have her Mom to turn to . Go with her to her doctor appointments. She is going to have a tough time ahead of her and needs you . I was the same way as your daughter , well it didnt happen at a family picnic but I was young and not married . I was affraid to tell my mother . I thought it would kill her . My mother never yelled, never put me down , she excepted it and did everything she could to help me . Thank God I had my mother back then. I hate to think what it would have been like without her . Be there for her and don't worry about what people will say , Everyone is allowed to make mistakes , what matters is how you deal with what has happend . What I would do is I would go out and buy a pair of baby booties to give her . That's what my mom did , and it's 30 years later and I still have that little pair of booties put away in a box. It meant soo much to me . She is your daughter , love her and help her .

hi dear . real tough situation . but you have got to face it now. better forget the past and look for the help your daughter needs to get it over and prepare her for the responsibilities of tomorrow and prepare yourself too for the same!! take her for checkups and she may need any medical assistance!! well you have to share the blame along with her and she is not alone to suffer!!