feel a bit down/confused
By galoforce
@galoforce (263)
March 7, 2009 4:40pm CST
there is a girl as to which i have liked for a while, and have started talking to her alot a latly and i went out with her the other day. we held hands and overall had a great night, when i got home i just felt so much that i wanted her. i decided to sleep on it though in the morning it was still the same... i told her how i felt that evening and she said she knows i like her :S and she just sees me as a good friend. quite frankly im puzzled as to what to do... just leave it or what? in truth i have never felt like this for anyone before
2 responses
@Marcola (2774)
• United States
8 Mar 09
Well, if she sees you as just a good friend, don't force the issue of being more than that. I guess you could ask her to hang out or something just as friends, though I suppose it might be kind of awkward since she knows how you feel. She possibly could develop feelings for you over time. I guess you could sit her down and pour your heart out to her and see if the two of you can reach an agreement. Just don't put too much pressure on her. Of course, there's also the possibility this girl is just a tease. Hope this helps!
@galoforce (263)
•
8 Mar 09
she was showing all the body language as if she liked me though thats what i dont get.
i do love spending time with her and would like to still spend time with her just as friends, though as you stated it could be a little weird. though also as you said she could just be a tease haha, lets just lie in wait i guess. i mean, there is 2 other girls i could have if i wanted but i dont for some reason, could this be love?....
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
9 Mar 09
She may see you as a good friend right now but that doesn't mean that she will see you in that light forever. She obviously enjoys your company...and you enjoy hers...so continue to see her when you can and don't push the issue of taking the relationship further. Being friends first is a great foundation for a good relationship in the future. Hang in there. 
