Discovery of a woman lying to her man.

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A situation happened at least 5 months ago when my old friend turned his back on me. He said something to me which really hurt me. I ended up turning my back on him. Ok, to start from the start. I was told by my friend that his woman was shy when it came to a certain subject. I accepted that. When she started talking to me, she was the first person to talk about this certain subject. I had responded to her comments. As the time went on we talked about the subject and I kept asking her if she was ok talking about it. She told me yes. She even asked for my help about the subject when it comes to her man. I was happy to help her. I should have had lunch with her one day but I ended up cancelling because of my own husband being sick and I wanted to spend time with him and care for him while he was sick. It was from here that thing really went down hill. My friend and his woman turned their backs on my by deleting my contact details without telling me. It prompted me to call one of them when I didn't hear from them or see them online. My friend told me what I felt was a lie. I continued chasing for the truth so I went to see my friend. An unannounced visit which really was very rude of me to do. The end result of the visit was the truth coming out. I was so upset about what was said that I ended the friendship and walked away. I thought I would get over it. Concentrating so hard to move on. But it was not working. My health has been suffering for 5 months. I decided to contact my old friend to get more details. He stood by what he said that his woman was not ok with the subject. He even accused me of holding a history of conversations on my computer. I told him that without proof I would not be able to convince him that I am telling the truth and if I did hold the history of conversations between her and I, I would send him the files so that he could see it for himself. I personally don't think I could do any more than just tell him my side of the story after 5 months Really the way that I put it across to him, if she is telling him the truth, then she was lying to me. If she was telling me the truth, she was lying to her man. Either way she was lying to some one. In my opinion, I personally think she was testing loyalty of her man. Creating a situation to see who he would support. He should have never been put in a position like that at all. Even I could tell her that he would be loyal to her because she is his partner. I have asked if he wanted to continue a friendship because we had been friends for 4 and half years. I didn't want to throw it all away. With all that has gone on, I don't think a friendship will work. I am just happy now that I have told him my side of the story. It is up to him if he wants to continue believing in lies or the truth or to be neutral. What do you all think of this situation? I would like to hear different ideas.