how do you handle rejections?

Philippines
March 7, 2009 9:53pm CST
Do you still give yourself a chance or look for someone else?
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5 responses
@clickicy (571)
• Indonesia
8 Mar 09
i... well in my personal experience i always look for someone new. i don't really know why. but yes i don't really a picky kind when its about love. being reject is indeed hurt if you take it seriously. why would i try to convince someone who just hurt by rejecting me to accept me?
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
8 Mar 09
Never accept it as a challenge. If someone says no, take it to mean no. Don't harrass someone even if you believe you are soul mates. If it's meant to be a chance will come around again.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Alright, I'm just asking.. hehe.. No need to harass anyone. Thanks for the comment.
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
don't you accept it as a challenge??? =) thanks for the reply man.
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
8 Mar 09
Rejection could be a very disappointing thing but it could also be a motivation to move on and try something else...something new. I won't let rejection stop me from moving on and getting what I want or could possibly want. Sometimes we don't know what's best for us until we try and try again and until we finally get ourselves to where we want to be. So why stop if the world is still spinning around? Sometimes we don't have to go with the flow...we need to advance from the flow until we're so far away from that awful rejection.
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• Philippines
8 Mar 09
yeah... that was inspiring though. Have you experience rejection/s before? I'm experiencing it right now, and i don't what/when/how to start again. i don't want to give to give up... or just need to wait for the right time?
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@gicolet (1702)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Yeah of course i've experienced rejection before. It requires time to heal but don't let it go on for far too long. We all need to move on. Take care.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Cool.. Thanks. =)
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
8 Mar 09
I allow for rejections in my life. It is not a big deal.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Good for you. :)
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
8 Mar 09
If someone rejects you it doesn't mean anything other than they are not interested at that time. Look for someone who not only is interested but has something to offer that you are interested in.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Yeah right. but I end up by not looking for someone... I think i have to wait though. It's hard for me because it was the first time being rejected by a woman. But that's life.. gotta move on. Thanks for the comment.
@Archie0 (5652)
8 Mar 09
no i now dont give myself a chance to look out for someone, i am actually tired of getting backoffs every next time when there is some feelings developing in. i am tired giving myself a chance everytme to love, but the thing is i dont think it is made for me, rather i am made for it.and now i am remained with shattered feelings of not loving again, i just dont feel like getting that feeling in.
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• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Aww, don't say your tired. Just give yourself a time and space. hehe... Everything will be completed in time. you know what i mean. :) Just open your heart. naks.