How do you attract a woman or a man ? Is it all about being good looking ?

i think thats usually where it starts, of course good looking people get most of the attention and interest, but personality and interest is whats gonna carry the relationship or friendship or whatever...

I think the hardest part is the start, once you have your foot in the door the rest is all about personality, and making a connection. The start I say because you make that intial interaction so many things are judged in the first 30 seconds. Anyone of these can turn one person off from another. These can be looks, hygiene, attitude, pick up line, even lack of any of the above.