I want my stuff back!

I am still waiting for my girlfriend to return my cooler. I let her use it to take some meat from our freezer, then she used it for fair. That was I believe in 2007. Or it could have been 2006. Well anyways, I asked her about it again, and she said what cooler, so I told her, and she doesn't have it. So she said she would buy me a new one. I wonder when that will happen.

Ive had it happen alot to me also. I almost never borrow stuff and I always return it. If something happens to it...I replace it. I have had so many things "borrowed and never ever returned. Either that or they returned it damaged. which is just as bad. Now I don't lend anything (including cash) unless i won't be upset if it isn't returned. It's a pretty good policy and saves friendships.

I don't think I have something here that someone wants back! I hope they will tell me if it's so! I have a couple of things that people have borrowed from me that I haven't gotten back. One of the things is a baby sling that I was going to lend to another friend now as she had her baby a month ago, but the person that borrowed it hasn't returned it nor called me about it - I've tried to get in touch with her several times. She's had it for a year now!

it happens, it might not be intentional done to deceive you. sometimes others won't take it seriously or forget about it due to job responsability. there are many occusions when we forget to give back things of others.

i bought a sunblock lotion in advance so that i have something to use when we go to our summer vacation. i just left it in my kit along with my other stuff at the apartment i share with 2 friends. then one of them who has a partner went to the beach. i looked for my sunblock lotion and its missing. i asked them if they took it and they said no. im pretty sure where i last left my sunblock lotion and its not there anymore. i feel so bad. and i want my sunblock lotion back huhu it maybe shallow for some but i feel bad about losing stuff and distrusting friends since we're the only people who come and go in that apartment

Oh wow. I'm sorry to hear that you lost your jacket to someone. In my opinion, you should just let it go. You're not going to get it back, she might have already thrown it away, and even if she hasn't you really don't want to have to talk to her in order to get it back. I know that an old friend of mine has one of my mom's dvds. It really upset me because it was Finding Neverland, which my mom still hasn't seen. Anyways, my friend was a HUGE Johnny Depp fan so I lent it to her so her and her mother could watch it. And I asked for it back a couple times before our friendship ended and she would simply tell me that she forgot. I never pushed it but now I wish I had. The only things that I can think of that I still have that belong to someone else are my best friend from middle school's hair scrunchie, and an old crush's hoodie. Now the scrunchie is torn and bright silver so I hardly ever wear it. I can't get myself to throw it away though because she was such a big impact on my life. The hoodie on the other hand was given to me by the guy. I've never worn it in public and it doesn't have his scent anymore but it's still something of his and he was important to me as well. He might have only been a crush but I still hold onto it and if he were to ask for it back today I would tell him I threw it out because I didn't want to be reminded of him. Hehe, that sounds silly.

yay, i hate it when it happens and i hate people for doing that.. i've experienced the same thing.. one of my friends wayback in college borrowed lots of books from me(chicken soup inspirational books)... she promised to return the books to me after a month but she didn't.. yay! after that incident, i've decided not to lend my stuffs to her anymore.. she is really annoying!

Sometimes people hope to be able to keep the things and hope that the person they borrowed it from has so many things on there mind that they forgot about it and who gave it to them. 3 years? Well that's not such a great friend then, is it? You should never give anything to anybody to lend if it is special to you. No matter if they get angry.

my friends usually borrow my stuff, and and they always forgot to return it to me so i tend to go to their place and pick my stuff. hehehe what hurts me is sometimes the stuff that they borrowed from me, are gone coz they lend it to someone else.. :