What's your feeling when you fall in love with others?

@SmilyQin (179)
China
March 9, 2009 7:56am CST
I met one guy on the internet,he is from the same place with me,I am very glad to meet him .We talk in our hometown langue,it is very nice!I am single girl always and I enjoy mylife very much except sometimes a little lonely!We met several times,and he falls in love with me quickliy!He call me everyday,wanna meet me everytime.I can feel that he is not kidding me,he is serious!And he is nice guy .He is from the army.He is very talktive and a little older than me.Sometimes i found myself miss him all the times. Sometimes i would tell myself that ,ok,he is the one!But there is another voice in my mind said ,no way,be single untill you meet the best! I don't know how to deal with this situation,he keeps calling me ,asking me out,i don''t know if i love him or not, I don't know exactly,what is the feeling of love? Could you guys please tell me your feelings when you fall in love with others!
5 responses
hollysun
@hollysun (97)
• China
10 Mar 09
Hi SmilyQin.I'm glad to hear that there is a boy who love you very much.You said he was a good boy,so you are a luck girl.But i'm sorry to hear that you don't know whether you love him and don't know what is the feeling in love.I don't know how to express my opinion,feelings in love are a very magical thing,which i can't express them with proper words.From your current feelings ,I think you should love him too,but your contacts may be a little ,so,you are not sure about your feelings to him.You can try to know him as much as possible,then you may understand waht's your feeling to him. Good luck!
marshiemallows
@marshiemallows (1010)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
when i'm in love, i feel shy and i want to stay away from the person because i'm afraid that i might keep smiling when i'm near him. i suddenly develop this phobia on that guy and i get tongue-tied if ever he talks to me. well, i'm not really sure if that's just a sign of crushing on a person or what because people mostly say that it's exactly the opposite when you're in love. you tend to stay closer to the person and you feel really comfortable when you're with him. they say that you can be yourself when your around that person you love.
regal_aeros
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
9 Mar 09
What makes you think he is not the best? Is he lacking in some area? I find that there is no harm in going out with him IF you feel comfortable. Be friends with him if you're unsure, and let nature take it's course. If you feel that things are moving too fast, let him know. I'm sure if he loves you, he will take it slow.
nansheeca
@nansheeca (215)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
actually what you are feeling right now is the answer to your question. you seem confused and very excited. then you are in love. if you are not sure with your feelings but you cant seem to get him out of your mind, then its love. believe me...if it continues, then you should do something about it.
chenzeping1988
@chenzeping1988 (4)
• China
9 Mar 09
It's a pity that I never fall in love with others.I am not sure what is love.But in my life I see many lovers.I thing the feelings may be sweet,but sometimes bitter.