how does it feel????????

one feels shattered when one is unable to get his/her love of life. you were lucky that both had the same intensity of feelings and are now together. he loves you more than himself, believe me on this, he chose to move away not for his selfish desires but for the sake of your happiness. best wishes

It hurts as hell and reading the conversation here and the questions being asked made me reminisce the scene way back when my boyfriend or extnded by that exact time extended his hand on me for a friendly shakehands. God knows how much it hurt that fighting your tears to fall down hurts more. whats being asked here exactly what happened to me... for he kept loving me along after the break up... God, i still remember those sleppless nights and crying times. It hurts so bad. After, i guess 5 months he contacted me just to ask me if i still love him. I was not able to deny since my heart was yearning for me. So there we got each other back and now we are married for 10 almost 10 months now. I take him back because i love him and that is all the matters. There is no sense in blaming the person for what happened to the relationship in the past...just face what's today

I feel hurted because if I love him and suddenly he turned me down saying that he did not love me anymore it feels me sick! So much in love in one person especially if he was your boyfriend of course he gives you the fountain of happiness. And the never ending joy in your life ever.

It happends and the most and important part of it is what so ever you have been gone through........ at the end you could able to make it and you are happy you should be thankful to God because in millions you could able to make it, there people endup with heart broken. couldn't get that chance to make it happen. So cheer-up Heartly wishes to both of you

OHHHHH. . ouch! that's hurt! but it is more hurt if you find out that he love you then he didnt fight you for that feelings, but still, you have a happy ending! good to hear that. if there would be a chance that could happen to me, maybe i'm gone crazy for knowing that she love me also. at the same time, m going to be proud and tell to the world that im the happiest man living on earth. nyahahaha. hopefully it would happen. how i wish. coz til now, i dont find a girl that make me love the way i want to be. sad right? hahaha,

1st of all i would like to congratulate u..for being with d person u truely love.now for ur question..if someone doesn't like u..i think it would become clear slowly...however we try to convince ourselves d opposite.It feels..like ur worthless..nobody can love u.u blame God n everyone around u for making u like this.but slowlyu would learn to acept d fact dat perhaps it was meant to b so.now suddenly..if u came to know dat he/c loves u madly..it feels like...nothing..u won't know whether to feel happy or sad.but i think if i wree in ur place i would do d same as u.n b grateful to God..dat im with d person whom i love truely..as very few ppl manage to find true love..n im one of those lucky ones.

I would feel very sad and heart broken. I experienced something like this in high school with a guy. He wanted to date me and I was not interested. And so I finally gave in to his persuasion and I went with him. He later came to me in the Commons Area, and he told me that he would rather be friends. I was so sad and heart broken. I went to bed that night crying myself to sleep... I was so upset that day. I made sure that I avoided him at school after that. So you see, I was mad, sad, upset, hurt heart broken and distressed. This is no way for any person to feel about someone.

thats a happy story of urs parthu..im happy for u =D if me, i would do the same like u did..specially if im sure that he's the one, i wont let him feel like that and having a doubt that he's not the one that can make me happy..i will convince him that he is my happiness..

I've been through something similar to this recently and in the past with the same guy. He told me once that he is a commitment-phobic, and it hurt me so much for him to leave both times. I can acknowledge that love is a transient thing at times, but if you know you'll always care for someone, isn't that the same as loving them? He really hurt me, but I'm moving past him again, and testing the waters in a new relationship that hasn't failed to fulfill my needs as of yet.

It really feels bad. I don't know why there are people who hesitated to inform the other person about their real feelings?for me it is okay to tell the other person with what we really feel because we live only once and it is a big frustration and mistakes if we failed to tell the person we love how wonderful he/she is and how life becomes perfectly nice because of their presence. I always make it a point to extend my special treatment to the person I truly love so that he may know how I value himself and how worthy he is to me, even if it is just for "special treatment"and nothing else.

It hurts as h3ll. While reading the conversation and the questions being asked here made me remisnice the scene way back when my boyfriend or ex bf rather, extended his hand to me for a friendly shakehands. Our relationship was ended just like that "friends?" and then shakehands. God knows how much it hurt that holding your tears from falling doubled the pain. I was really hurting for 5 months without knowing that he was hurting as well. I hated him actually for doing it to me yet i did not know that he kept loving me. Aftr 5 months,he contacted me and asked me if i still love him. Yes, it was short and quick answer from my lips. I couldn't deny that fact. ALl the pain that he have caused me, all disappeared. There was something i learned from that-i learned and confirmed that i can't love without him and so as my boyfriend. It was just a kind of test to our relationship. So there we got back to each others arms and now we are married for almost 10 months.

if finally you are life happy together ,i will think as a prince and the pricess,which would be the perfect story like tv set.

Hmmmmm... interesting, since i experienced it too. Anyway, life must go on no matter what. Love is a very strange thing indeed. In my case, even after knowing the truth, I just carry on with my life and wish her all the best in her life. You see in life, not all things that we wanted will be ours. We have to accept that fact. It is how this world works, and by doing so, the life we are having in this world becoming merrier and full of expected happening. Anyway, congratulation of having someone who makes you happy, and life your live to the fullest.