How to get over him or her in a relationship

break up - rules to apply when you break up
United States
March 10, 2009 3:01am CST
just wanted to let us know te easy ways i adopt to get over him/her... here are some tips that works... rule 1. cut off all communications: that is dont talk to him/her... delete all phone numbers, emails, IMs,and dont look up profiles or seek him/her out in any fashion. This will keep u way from the urge to contact him or her... rule 2. Get rid of any gifts,letters, notes and son on: Dont give them back to your EX, give away to goodwill. WHATEVER but dont keep them... rule 3. hang out with friends often: keeps memories of him/her away rule 4. Dont jump into a new relationship: this is unfair to the new if you have not yet gotten over your ex, because sometimes you might act hysterical rule 5. Always do something active: run, go to the movies,shop or something but dont just stay idle. rule 6. Try to think about the things you never liked about your partner.. that makes you even want to leave him/her the more.. people break up for a reason rule 7. Remember not to be afraid to be alone: you will always find someone else down te road, so why be afraid. loneliness is normal. rule 8. do not try and be friends with your EX unless u can get over him/her: Once you are over him/her then you can be friends but if you cant get over him/her, and you keep on contacting him/her, you might not be able to get over him/her and that may affect your new relationship. rule 9. do not wallow in alchohol, it will only make you feel worse. i know this sos trust me on this... rule 10. it takes time but you will someday.... if you have more tricks and secrets, please share with us..
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
10 Mar 09
Well it can really be hard sometimes, but a person must go on with him or her life, there are oter fish in the Sea.
• United States
10 Mar 09
thats right. i guess she has to know that too and i am going to let hell loose if she tries it again.
@j1106e (53)
• Philippines
3 May 09
I only have one thing to say about this. This maybe a little hard at first but you really have to do it if you want to forget someone. Acceptance. And you can freely move on.