torn between two lovers

jajaja! never been into a situation like this, but i have a friend who's been experiencing this situation. everytime i ask him to choose between the two, he can't barely choose the best.

I never fell for two ladies yet so i really don't know how to handle such but just to give my two cents, i think the decision solely depends on you. If you're willing to go on with your life sacrificing what you feel for the other guy or if you can risk everything for the sake of being with the guy you truly love. Both choices are good but the degrees of damage control varies. Find out what you will lose if you choose this or that.

Barbie brings up a good point. I don't think I would ever let myself get into that situation, though. I am with a wonderful man and would never risk our relationship. If I thought for a moment I was having feelings for another man, I would sever my ties with him at once and explain to him why. I once had a nightmare similar to this where I was trapped because I was in love with two men and didn't want to choose between them...