what is your relationship status?

Philippines
March 10, 2009 7:48pm CST
i just want to know my dear mylotters... firends, what is your relationship status? me, i am in a relationship...how about you? are you single? complicated thing? married? separated? or mutual understanding? or what?
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@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
i'm married. i was 27 when i decided to settle down. i was just recovering from a breakup but my husband courted me at once after that failed relationship. i was really hoping that the last relationship would end in marriage because i'm not young anymore and i don't plan to be a mother at once after getting married. i want to be a wife first for the first two years of marriage. that would mean i would be in my thirties when i give birth. anyway, it didn't work out and 8 months later i ran off with my husband. we're married for 6 years now and have a 3 year old son.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... you found love on that short span of time? wow..sounds interesting! good luck to you..
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
I married for almost 7 years, but it's a little complicated now.
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... why is it a little complicated? if i might ask.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Hi donnakristel. Well, I am currently in a relationship like you and I'm very grateful about it because he is wonderful! I love doing things with him, going to places and discovering things. We enjoy each other. Like others', we've had our own share of rough roads but we manage to overcome it and understand what went wrong and make it good moving forward.
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... good luck to your discoveries. i hope wedding bells is the next step too..:-)
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@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
11 Mar 09
I am happily married to a wonderful man.
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... keep it up! more years to come too..
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@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
11 Mar 09
I am married, so to speak. I have been with my husband for almost 10 years. Sometimes it's been a very long 10 years, other times, it's like wow... it's already be 10 years.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... 10 years is really 10 years. congratulations to you! golden years is tagging along...
• Australia
11 Mar 09
Hey, how's it going? Yeah I'm in a relationship with the girl who I'm pretty sure that I want to marry. She hurt me yesterday and we haven't spoken since, so currently I'm feeling not too thrilled about the whole relationship thing. But eh, it'll all work out. All relationships have ups and downs I guess.
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks.... i am doing great! how about you? yes, we all have ups and downs. i hope everything will be fine with you...she is lucky to have you.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Hi donnakristel! I am happily married. Thanks to the loving patience of my husband most of the time! haha.. I do wish you the best in your present relationship my dear. Take care and blessings to you! lovelots..faith
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
haha..depends upon the wife's moods! lovelots..faith
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thanks... hahhaa...husbands should be patient and kind..how about the wife?lol
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@cream97 (29086)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Hi, donnakristel! I am happily married to my husband for seven years. This July on the 12th, it will be eight years that we would have been married!
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks.... well, congratulations in advance! keep it up! i know how hard to maintain a loving relationship nowadays.you are blessed!
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
I'm single. But there's this guy I've been praying for for months. We're good friends and he did say he likes me. The thing is,I'm still not ready for a new relationship. But its good knowing he's there as a friend. I pray to God that he waits.
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
I don't intend to. I'm just waiting for him to ask me again...I hope he does...
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
woman power...try making a poke..so that he will make some move..hehehe
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... i hope he will wait. but don't let him wait for so long...:-)
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@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
Hi donnakristel, Is complicatedly married included? kidding aside. Hubby and I will celebrate our 10th year marriage on Apr17. Married life is wonderful though it has a lot of ups and downs. Sometimes, problems arise when you least expect it. But we are blessed with 2 wonderful daughters and as parents we have to show all the time that no problems no matter how humongous it is, can affect the stability of our family. What about you donna?
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
thanks... congrats on your anniversary girl! well, i am still enjoying my singlehood..
• United States
11 Mar 09
im married and have been for 10 years this april
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• United States
12 Mar 09
thanks! it seems so weird to have been married that long compared to my age
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thanks.... 10 years is an awardee! i am happy to know that you are going to celebrate your 10th year anniversary this april. congratulations! go for the golden year!
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@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
I am single for almost a year now. I have moved on and now ready for a new relationship now. The only problem is who i am going to love. I haven't met any new girl around so i guess a new relationship is nowhere to be found yet. I really don't feel much pressure being single but if possible, i want it now so maybe i can get to know her better then take the next step.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks... finding a new love takes time too. good luck on your searching...
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• United States
11 Mar 09
i am extremely happily married to the love of my life and i know how lucky and blessed i am. if my children are this happy someday with someone i will be thrilled.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks. passing your happiness to your children is a great challenge to you too.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
11 Mar 09
Well I am single. But can you tell me what is complicated? Even I am confused about Mutual Understanding? I think complicated means one way street not approved lover. Mutual understanding means you have a separated partner with good mutual Understanding. Tell me if I am wrong. Bye
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thanks... complicated, it is relative, for me, it is a status where in you are officially together but there are things that complicates the relationship. as mutual understanding, you are not officially together but shared a same feeling.
@rakesh284 (1472)
• India
12 Mar 09
Thanks for that. Even mine were full of sense. lol Thanks for your explanation. Bye
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
11 Mar 09
I am a divorced mommy. I am trying to see if me and my ex-husband can get back together. We're friends for now. this is my second ex-husband and never want a divorce again. so I ain't marring anyone until I know it will be good life for me and my son.
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thanks..i hope everything will run smoothly on your part.. good luck!
@myralmedo (815)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
hi there again :) am single with 1 dependent LOL am in a relationship too- am with the dada/father of my baby but we're not yet married, for me getting married is a next level- since my pregnancy is unplanned i don't want to have an excuse just to get married- i think it over though hubby offered me- there's a lot of things to consider though we love each other but it's not the only factor to include in married life and that's what i explained to him- he understands and we're very much happy together with our lil bundle of joy-one step at a time- i know we will be there someday happy myLotting! Godabless!0=)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
thanks.. i salute your decision on not getting married unprepared!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Hi donnakristel, me I am in a relationship and it's been 2 years and almost 2 months. Seriously involve and madly in love with her, and want to spend my life with her. Anyway have a nice day to you!
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• Philippines
11 Mar 09
thanks.... i hope you will ask her hand soon...a next step in your relationship.
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
12 Mar 09
single. but i do want to be in a relationship though. but i'm not desperately prowling the streets. That's for one. I'm just keeping my options open. And keeping both eyes open too. HAha.
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• Philippines
12 Mar 09
yes, you should be open in everyhting..the next thing you know, you might found your girl. thanks...
• United States
11 Mar 09
I am in a relatiosnhip we've been together for going on six years now. We have two kids together an almost 4 year old daughter and an 8 month old son. We plan to just continue to be in a relationship until both of us are ready for the next step and we know that both of us are able to support our family.
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• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thanks.. i hope you will be able to go on the next step. send my hugs to your children!
• United States
11 Mar 09
I am single but I am getting to know people to see if I would like to date them. I use to rush into relationships and I never dumped anyone of them because i always want to work things out no matter what.
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• Philippines
12 Mar 09
thanks.. i hope all guys are like you. some guys likes to dump women for another girl.