Very Competitive Title "Can Money Buy Happiness and Love"
By scheng1
@scheng1 (24649)
Singapore
March 10, 2009 10:30pm CST
Found a very competitive title in Helium. There are already 137 articles in "Can Money buy Happiness and Love". I must say the title is very appealing to me. I want to be rich, want to be happy and want to love and be loved. But I have no idea whether money can buy happiness and love, since I am not rich enough to use money to buy either.
To write or not to write? It has so many articles, hard for a new article to break in and rank on top. On the other hand, if a new article can make it to the top, the writing score will improve tremendously.
In a dilemma now, to write or not to write?
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18 responses
@paid2write (5201)
•
11 Mar 09
If you have something interesting to say on the topic, why not write an article? A new article is always placed half way down under each title at Helium, so yours would start at 68 or 69 out of 137. It can rise and fall or fall and rise again in the ratings.
If your article gets into the top 25% it will increase your score and help towards your writing stars. It is easier to get into the top 25% in a popular topic than it is with only a few articles.
If it drops below 50% you can do a leapfrog (edit and improve your article) to see if you can get it to rise higher.
That is why Helium works well for learning to improve your writing. It encourages members to add well written articles.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
12 Mar 09
Thanks for your encouragement. Most people think negatively on submitting to such competitive titles. Agree that it is a good chance to polish writing skill. I have written and submitted the article. Right now it ranks 47/138. I have 7 leapfrogs available. I let it steam for a few days and see how it goes.
I guess a new writer needs a platform like Helium to sharpen writing skills. I will look out for those titles with more than 100 articles, write to it, learn to swim and float to the top.
Thanks again for your encouragement.
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Definitely NO! Money cant never buy happiness and love. Maybe temporary and in a very short period of time, but if you say TRUE and GENUINE happiness and LOVE, then it isn't... Because for me, LOVE and Happiness is no amount of money, actually it is free and but not everywhere. You can only find it with the right person and straight to your heart.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
haha Gwapako, you do have a very strong opinion and I respect that you take your stand. Hope you can find happiness and love wherever you go.
To be honest, I am not in the position to say a Yes or No. I have never been rich enough to use money to buy or try to buy love or happiness. I have also never been poor enough to say anything about it. In history, there are accounts of people poor enough and desperate enough to sell their own flesh and blood for money. So for them, money is more important than love for their own children. And money can buy happiness, and possibly love (at least prevent them from selling their own children).
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@nishdan01 (3051)
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
I think it is a debate article. If it is so, first hand personal experience will stand out in any topic no matter if there are some minor spelling or grmmatical errors. If you are about to write using examples from others, it may not do that well. So if you do not have personal experience, I would ask to avoid writing on this topic.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
No, it's not a debate article. I dont think first hand personal experience is possible. I mean, out of 137 writers, how many are rich enough to buy love and happiness? This article is not asking about how to buy love and happiness with money, it is more of an opinion piece.
This title is in Society and Lifestyle Morals, Values and Norms Economic Values. So it's more a moral debate and this kind of topic is usually very easy to write to, since there is no absolute right or wrong. Having said that, with 137 competing articles, it really is very hard to present a new perspective to appeal to readers.
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@iakulchen (615)
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
*wonders if those who commented above him realise that the question was to ask whether scheng1 should write an article about the topic*
If you are writing to that title hoping to increase your writing score on Helium, then no. Your grammar still needs polishing, your logic and reasoning skills aren't solid enough, and I don't think you have any unique views to add to the title. Your article is far more likely to sink than be anywhere near the top.
However, if you are writing because you want to write or because you want to share your personal views on the subject, then go for it. Just don't write because you think that it'll have a chance of improving your writing score.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
Yes, agree with you. I'm still at infancy stage, it's very risky to complete with all the writers for this topic. My grammar is really very bad, there are some writers who take the trouble to edit for me, else the article will really sink to the bottom.
I guess only an article with unique perspective can attract viewers and rank to the top. I think about it, maybe not now. This title is really very competitive.
Those mylotters who commented above are helpful in a sense, they show how popular a topic of love and money can be. Some of them feel about it very strongly.
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@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
Money cannot buy happiness and love that's for sure, though we need money to survive there are best things in life that cannot be reciprocated by any amount. Love and Happiness are rarely found nowadays. Sometimes, because of so many problems in life, this topic becomes a round-up joke in the workplace: "If money can't buy love, then you know where to shop".LOL!
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@jackyzbj (21)
• France
11 Mar 09
When money cannot buy happiness and love, without money, you definitely won't be happy or be sure about a relationship. Feeling secure in love is very important for a girl, which cannot be attained without money. You may say girls are material, but I will equate MATERIAL to REALISTIC.
We don't need a lot of money to make us happy, however, we cannot live without a decent bank acount.
Too rich or too poor either leads to unhappiness.
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@sajidsageer (267)
• India
11 Mar 09
i agree with you, this all are just words to express feelings money can't buy happiness, but without money we can't do anything, we can't help, we can't support our family, till everything is depend on money, yes we need a decent money to live in this world. Thank you
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@sophie_dfuss (2365)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Money can't buy eveything. Why?
Money can buy a wife but not love.
Money can buy everything you want but not happiness.
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@QiongLi01 (59)
• China
11 Mar 09
Money can not buy happiness and love absolutely.i think money can supply substance better but can not let us happy.the only way to gat happiness and love is to find our dreams,carres and half part of us.Money is not omnipotent but it can not have no money.Appropriate money is beeter.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
11 Mar 09
Actually if the question is changed to "Can we find happiness and love without money?" Maybe most people will hesitate, and not answer in such absolute term.
Many people still marry for money, still sacrifice their family for money, yet nearly all of us will say money cannot buy happiness and love.
If lack of money can destroy love and happiness, then does it mean that money can buy happiness and love?
Anyway I'm not qualified to answer, haven't been rich enough to buy happiness and love.
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@lxbflyhigh (8)
• China
11 Mar 09
Definetily,yes!
Money is everything.
No money,no hapiness,no love!
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@Ted3_uk (114)
•
11 Mar 09
Iv found it very easy to love, but as yet not had any one return the love id like.... Of course cash cant by love! But who says love is required for happynes?
Maybe if you just get ritch you can be happy with out the true love, and if your luck it will find you any way, which i begin to doubt lol
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@cptlo1 (93)
• United States
11 Mar 09
I think money can buy more love and happienss because be real what bum on the street are really happy and if your family already love u thing if u could get them things they want and u want al the time i just wish i had money to do this. Now ask for strangers who come when u got money they get nothing from me lol.
@aniketh_arha (15)
• India
11 Mar 09
suppose one patient went to hospital, after spending some money he and his family coming with happiness
Some one went shop and bought one thing which happines. Like Money indirectly helping for getting happines in most of the cases.
But love It is not possibel in veiw.
@brandonh1712 (5)
• Australia
12 Mar 09
I think too buy love is easy thats what gold diggers are for but do we really know is if this is love maybe they are in this for the money but maybe there in it for love maybe both know one knows how love works and i think you can only be loved when you are yourself and are not trying to be someone else!
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@AnythngArt (3302)
• United States
12 Mar 09
I am glad to see that your article is doing so well already on Helium (#47). I usually write to topics that I like, and often I am only the second article on the subject, so my writing score is a lot lower than I think it should be.
Which is better...to try and write articles about topics you like that aren't popular or to write to popular articles that you are not interested in? That is my dilemma.
After having read this discussion, I am actually surprised at how many people say that money can't buy happiness. It can buy you a good shrink to help solve your problems, can't it? LOL
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
12 Mar 09
Hi Art, thanks for the support. My baby has moved a bit higher, #30 now. There is one more article submitted after me, so that a total of 139 in the title now.
#30 is still not an ideal position. I plan to give it a day or two, let it stabilise, then decide whether to leapfrog or not.
The only other time I submitted to a very competitive title is under Humor. That baby is 29/188. Creative articles are not eligible for upfront payment, that's why I'm not so concerned.
Before writing for this article, I had submitted an article under "Finding the Meaning of life", it is currently in the top position. After this baby reached the top, I noticed the writing score jump from 82% to 89%.
We should listen to Paid2Write, take up the challenge, write a few articles in very competitive titles to polish our writing skills. After the "baptism by fire", we can write anything we like and it will be of a high quality.
@mzz663 (2772)
• United States
12 Mar 09
Looks like, in so many words, you answered your own question.
Maybe you should write about something else.
Obviously you are not going to find happiness or love asking questions that have been pondered for hundreds of years as long as you write questions and read answers here online.
Want the answer? Ask someone that has money if they're truly happy.
Ask someone in love if they are rich.
Take a poll.
If I were you, I wouldn't write at all.
Looks like you've answered your own question!
Your're apparently not rich, happy or in love, so you should just give up now on writting about love/money/happiness and write about something else, maybe something you know.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
12 Mar 09
Hi Mzz663, are you familiar with Helium? If you are not, you wont understand the dilemma. The title appeals to me, as it had appealed to all the 137 writers, and it appealed to all the readers who checked on the articles.
The fear of writing in this competitive title is the ranking. No point writing an article and has it ranked 120 out of 137. Unlikely to get attention from the readers.
I am a very happy person, feel rich in many different areas, have family and friends who loved me and whom I loved. I am not afraid of getting old, since I am so happy that I can never be lonely. As a 35 years old professional woman, I do not even see the need for applying make-up, all my colleagues and friends accept me for who I am, and loved me for the person I am.
I do not "buy" love and happiness, because there is no need to do so.
Anyway I had submitted the article, it has move up the rank to 30/139. Take a look at it if you are interested.
@peace001 (726)
• China
11 Mar 09
ofcourse not!
you are rich and meybe there are lots friends around you,but you can not know who are your really friends and what you are really want.you must give first and then you can gain the love and happiness.you know that happiness and love are the key to success,but success is not the key to happiness and love.
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