when you need to choose..................

@parthu28 (498)
India
March 10, 2009 11:21pm CST
hoe does it feel when you need to choose btwn ur family b friends n ur love????????????? if ur love doesnt want you to be many people....if ur love doesnt feel good if u r very social......... if there comes a situation when you need to choose btwn ur friends n the love of ur life... what do we do????????? how do we choose????????
2 responses
• United States
19 Mar 09
Quite simple, what is the best way not to jeopardize the love between your love and you? For me, I chose my love over family, friends, and everyone. And it back fired on me and I'll tell you why in a second. This person was so connected to their family and their friends, not by choice. And my love wanted me and no one else, same here, but the effects were terrible. The mother kicked me out, the friends rejected me, and life became sad. I'd say, if you're able to choose your love over your friends and family if it doesn't jeopardize your relationship. I realize now, the only way I can get close my love is through her friends and family, and it's hard apologizing to 100s of people. JK JK. Probably 10 people.
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
11 Mar 09
Lasting love must accept more than the person all smiling in front of you, but also his other sides, his family, his community. If you are not ready to do that, better ask yourself if you are willing to get adapted. Do not expect the other part to change. If neither is to change, better rethink of the relationship. Love is not always exciting, in due time, it will become less passion, but more of partnership with responsibility.