is marriage an entry to happiness or exit to freedom?
By ushassu
@ushassu (34)
India
March 11, 2009 3:13am CST
hey friends they often say that people who r outside want to come into it and who r inside want to go out regarding marriage.what r your view points. is marriage an entry point to ones happiness and bliss or exit to ones individuality, freedom? ever pondered on it? tell me your view points plss
How many of u are married and think u shd have taken a little time before getting married and how many of u r unmarried and eagerly waiting to get married??
6 responses
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 09
As for me, l think marriage is the bond between two person, who are really in-love. You only can felt the happiness and bliss when you are married to the person that you really love. lf you don't really love the person that you are marrying, then you won't get the happiness that you are seeking after. In that case, then no choice, you had to opt for exit to freedom.
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
11 Mar 09
Firstly, I am not married.
If the time was right, I would not protest.
I feel that marriage is an very special celebration and is an entry point to ones happiness and bliss.
I believe that marriage should not be an exit to ones individuality and or freedom, why would it?
If this came to be an issue, I would not want to be married as we all must remain our own individuals.
When the time is right, I believe that marriage can be the happiest time of a couples lives together.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
11 Mar 09
Hello,Usha! I don't think marriage ends ones freedom.After marriage we live our own life but with due limitations and good understanding.For me,however,marriage brought lot of pleasure and happiness.After marriage we love each other and meet the natural needs.S o don't think otherwise and get married soon for pleasure sake and enjoy your life.thanx.
@Nancy1987 (54)
• China
11 Mar 09
There is a book in China named A surrounded city written by famous write Qian Zhongshu.In the book,he has this kind of concept.But I think it is because we love each other so we get married .We have the same purpso for this marriage that is we can live together enjoying life together no matter bad or good times.So I think we can not say it's an entry to happiness or others.Life is different for everybody.I never married but I am looking forward to this.Life is a journey that a destination so is marriage.It's is a lifelong journey.I hope there will be someone who is willing to spend the rest of his life with me to explore our new world in life together.
